angie16 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Been looking for apartments, today makes 14 days since we broke up. I want to go home. I want to be with him. I want to move back in. He told me it wasn't working, that we had problems, but the thing is, we have love. I actually got hit on last night at a friends birthday party, it was nice at first, but then it hurt. I just want to come home. I just want to wake up beside him again. we had such a nice talk the other night, an hour over coffee. Laughs and smiles, catching up only to say goodbye on the street. I want to come home. Please call me and tell me you want that too.
niceguy27 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Angie, I really feel for you. I want the same from my ex. I want her just to "come home" and let it be just us. Haha. I still cant sleep on "her" side of the bed. But reality is different than what our heart feels sometimes. I wished the world would cherish feelings like that. But we live in a selfish, dog eat dog world and a lot of people do not see what really matters in life. If you really do have a deep love, let things lie where they are for now. Since you guys dont really have any negative feelings for each other, just take what you guys shared and tuck into a little corner of your heart. If/when the day comes that he comes back to you, you will still have that little bit of love left for him and then YOU will decide what to do with it then. Until then, follow what your heart tells you to do but keep a clear head throughout it too. Come here often and express what you feel and we will all pitch in to help ya out.
Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I know it's not easy but you can't make someone loves you. Concentrate on yourself.. pamper, treat yourself.. I know it's not easy..but you got to do it... Time heals a broken heart... nothing else does.
Grace112 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Angie, I totally sympathize. I refuse to sleep on his side of the bed so it's like he's there even though he's not. I'm with niceguy and am of the belief that if it was meant to be, love will circle back around again.
Author angie16 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 Angie, I totally sympathize. I refuse to sleep on his side of the bed so it's like he's there even though he's not. I'm with niceguy and am of the belief that if it was meant to be, love will circle back around again. Thats what i am hoping. I realize that we both were reacting to each other. I know we still love each other. He admitted he's been a mess as well. Between his grief and me being incapable to let getting engaged go, we had spiraled into an emotionally unhealthy place. I really feel with space we will be better. I really do. But its a breakup, not a break, which is what is killing me. I just want to know that we will be together again. My life is upside down.
Author angie16 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 I just got the promotion at work I have been wanting for 6 months. And I'm not happy, because i can't call my best friend and tell him about it. I actually just cried in the bathroom becasue i can't call him and talk about how it finnally came through. Its ironic that all this at work is happening as i am alone and so sad. can i call him and tell him?
XxBacktoBlackXx Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Even though you want to, I don't think you ought to call him and tell him. I think that'll take you back to step 1 all over again. Congrats on the promotion though and I wish you the best in your healing.
Author angie16 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 just emailed me. She apologized for not telling me earlier (it happend 2 weeks ago) because of the circumstances, but she and her boyfriend (i set them up 3 years ago) got engaged. I am so happy for her, and i get to be bridesmaid, but i am crushed so deep down. i just had to go in an empty office and lose it. I want to scream!!!!!!!! I just got great news with the promotion, and not 2 hours later... she's one of my best friends, i am so happy, but i feel like i've lost everything the last 2 weeks. I can hardly keep it together.
Geoffrey Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 ...please know that it will not always be this way. But permit it to be so at this time. Whatever the outcome....I am willing to bet you will get over all of this, when the time is right, you will find yourself healing up. When the time is right to heal, it will happen. Keep the faith. Hey, I know just how you feel. I've been there. Whatever the outcome, it's going to be all right!
Curious139 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Angie, I really feel for you. Since you guys dont really have any negative feelings for each other, just take what you guys shared and tuck into a little corner of your heart. If/when the day comes that he comes back to you, you will still have that little bit of love left for him and then YOU will decide what to do with it then. I really like this. Keep the love in your heart and remember the good times. They were genuine and nobody can take those memories away.
ftheunion Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Guys out there feel similarly, but they don't talk about it cause they are hunters and don't talk much. Plus no one gives a damn. At least girls can nurture each other. Without a woman, a guy isn't nurtured. He just takes whatever and shoves it down. I dunno if anything in the world matters. Love might just be another dumb thing, If you can refer to it as a noun at all. An ancient greek argued that everthing is change, and stasis is an illusion, but another argued that everything is stasis, and change is an illusion.
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