So Lost

[bartles]

I don't really know where to post this but here goes. I was seeing this guy (who had a gf) and I had a H but I am seperated. Anyway, one night we just talked all night as we usually do. He told me he loved me and we said gn. Every morning I text him a Good Morning and he replies. Well yesterday, I got no reply. Figuring he was busy I went on about my day. I called him about 4PM as I seen he was online on myspace so I figured he was free. He did not pick up the phone. About an hour later I sent him a myspace message and asked him if he just didn't want to talk to me or what. He checked the messae but did not respond. I sent him a follow up mssg an hour later and said that I guess the no response means no. I told him that I hope he is doing well and to be blessed. About 10 that night I sent him a text that said I hope you are ok...will you at least let me know if you are...no response. Hmm...so I went to bed. Day one of no talking to him...the first time in MONTHS! Well this morning...as I have always done..I sent him a Good Morning...this time via email which works like texting for him as he can check from his phone. Again, no answer. I've realized now (and I am so sad at the moment and confused) that I have given him toop much power. He can control rather I am happy or sad. Hearing from him makes me smile and not talking to him..right now is just tearing me apart. How do I get over this man and stop sending him messages. I've tried to keep busy but even now I can't concentrate because I am wondering what happened that he won't talk to me and is he ok. He is due back in town from vacation on Sunday and we were suppose to hook up but when I talked to him I told him I had no sitter and wouldn't be able to see him til Wed (our normal meeting day) he said he understood. What do I do?

[Lyssa]

You messaged way too much already, sweetie. I think you should just wait until he gets back to you. For the time being, please try bery hard not to text him! Like you said, he has power over you and I'm sure he knows that, that is why he's ignoring you.. or maybe something is up... whatever it is, just wait for him to text you....