buzzie2 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Tonight I was flirting with a guy at work. I was telling him this funny story about a really rude customer that I had. Well he looked like he was really turned on that I was smiling and flirting with him a bit. I noticed that while we were talking he adjusted the front of his pants, and when he did this he was smiling at me even more. My question was do you think that he did this intentionally as a pass? And have any of you ever heard of a guy doing this?
Cad Rake Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Um, I don't think anyone can tell you for sure, but in my experience I only "adjust myself" around women I feel totally comfortable around... like old friends that I don't care what they think about me, you know? Because it is a pretty gauche thing to do around others generally. So it would be my guess that EITHER the guy was turned on and has no class OR he thinks of you as a sister and couldn't care less that you saw it.
Darkzen Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Sounds like he was interested and a bit embarrassed about shifting his pants and you noticing it... hence the bigger smile. Never heard or seen a pass consisting of someone adjusting their pants though. Typically it's eye contact, smiling and maybe a touch of the intended target (nothing perverted, just a touch on the arm or shoulder). Of course the context of what's being said is also key.
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