comfy_girl Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 went to dinner at h house. we are seperated. He wanted to play some video games and so i did and then we ate. He sat there for awhile and then I said to him is there going to be some time we can talk about us? He is like I dont want to talk about us.im like well ok but we have to eventually.Either we are working out the marriage or we are getting a divorce. 2 weeks ago he told me he "thinks" he wants out of the marriage. Now he doesnt want to talk about it.. Another thing is he was kinda hinting around about being horney and I am like well you better do something about it (jokingly) and he is like yeah I better find someone to take care of that. I am like NO you are still married and he is like I meant you. However when I said are you serious he is like no. I dont want to have sex.What gives? He kissed and hugged me goodbye. I think he is afraid to decide. He told me he was afraid of getting hurt again.
Gunny376 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I'd told his azz "Sound's like a personal problem!" He wants the honey without working for it! If he wants the honey, his azz has got to work for it! And that means growing the Hell up and learning, growing, to meet your emotional needs as a woman. Trouble is? You are as a woman are about ten years more emotionally developed as he is as a man! Its the reason guys like me ~ age 50 ~ can play woman age 40 or younger like a string on a guitar. And why you ~ at your age can play them the same lesser your age! BTW? I don't abuse the knowledge!
Trimmer Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Another thing is he was kinda hinting around about being horney and I am like well you better do something about it (jokingly) and he is like yeah I better find someone to take care of that. I am like NO you are still married and he is like I meant you. However when I said are you serious he is like no. I dont want to have sex.What gives? He's not kidding about being horny, and of course he would have wanted to do it with you, and of course he wasn't kidding about it, in spite of his comment about not being serious... I'm sure he would have liked to "hit that", but once you didn't bite at his hints, and questioned him about it, and he saw it wasn't going in a favorable direction (for him...), he didn't want to be literally rejected, so he made it into a "just kidding..." Classic guy thing.
ookla_2 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Comfy_girl.... How old is he? He sounds like he has a LOT of growing up to do. He invites you over, then plays VIDEO GAMES??? He doesn't want to talk about your MARRIAGE, but you are living separately and you are pregnant with HIS BABY??? I'm sorry, but this does not sound good. You don't want to mother a baby and a grown man... Just my two cents.
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