Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 I completely agree with you that age has nothing to do with anything! Its a combination of attitude, good DNA and keeping fit. I will never surrender myself to a number. Not now, not ever. I also know 50 yr olds that can give some 30 yr olds a run for their money in the appearance department. Not to brag...but I know I look good, I have a young face and an amazing body..still.. LOL This guy last night.. he doesn't stop telling me how sexy and beautiful I am... I even asked him last night: Isn't your gf sexy? He answered : Yes...but you are driving me crazy, I'm addicted to you. Others as well... I am constantly showered with compliments about my looks... More and more, these days, older women look good and healthy and fit. Good genes I guess... and expensive creams do the trick.
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Not to brag...but I know I look good, I have a young face and an amazing body..still.. LOL This guy last night.. he doesn't stop telling me how sexy and beautiful I am... I even asked him last night: Isn't your gf sexy? He answered : Yes...but you are driving me crazy, I'm addicted to you. Others as well... I am constantly showered with compliments about my looks... More and more, these days, older women look good and healthy and fit. Good genes I guess... and expensive creams do the trick. Take the bragging rights Lizzie! Hell! I do! I think it is awesome that people take care of themselves at any age! It's something to be very proud of!!! Good on you woman!
burning 4 revenge Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Take the bragging rights Lizzie! Hell! I do! I think it is awesome that people take care of themselves at any age! It's something to be very proud of!!! Good on you woman!you need a reality check
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 you need a reality check Ummmm.... No, I don't believe so! If you feel that it is not great that people take care of their appearance at any age, then I would believe you need the reality check! Get a grip!
herenow Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I'm so confused by this thread. Lizzie says she's over him, but from what she always says, she is never really into the MM she "sees". Lizzie, if you are never into him, how can you be over him? You alway say it's about the sex and you never have emotional ties to any of the many MM you sleep with. I just don't get what this thread is about.
burning 4 revenge Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Lizzie, have you ever seen Whatever Happened to Baby Jane ?
herenow Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Lizzie, have you ever seen Whatever Happened to Baby Jane ? OK, so is Lizzie Blanche or Jane? I'm guessing Jane, but I haven't seen that movie in a while.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 I'm so confused by this thread. Lizzie says she's over him, but from what she always says, she is never really into the MM she "sees". Lizzie, if you are never into him, how can you be over him? You alway say it's about the sex and you never have emotional ties to any of the many MM you sleep with. I just don't get what this thread is about. I have been seeing this young guy for over 2 years now... He's 25... cute, blablabla... he became, for unknown reasons, very lovey-dovey recently...he asked me many times to be his gf... I laughed... I'm the same age as his mom.. Anyway, long story short... he got caught by his gf... just after being sooo 'clingy' and telling me how much he wanted me...etc... I grew 'fonder' of him... We liked being together... he was a good lover... In other words... I liked him very much...he was becoming my 'favourite'... So, after he got caught, he called me the next day, to say she caught him, broke his cell in million pieces, got my number...etc.... and said it was over.. that he lied to me... to forgive him... blablabla... I have to confess that I felt a little twitch... and I didn't really like it... but I knew, deep down that he'd be back... So last night, he stopped by, told me he missed me... after he left, I realized that my 'twitch' was over... what I was worried about ...well... I don't feel it... It's hard to explain...
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 Lizzie, have you ever seen Whatever Happened to Baby Jane ? Nope...is that an old movie? If it's good, I can rent it.
herenow Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I have to confess that I felt a little twitch... and I didn't really like it... but I knew, deep down that he'd be back... So last night, he stopped by, told me he missed me... after he left, I realized that my 'twitch' was over... what I was worried about ...well... I don't feel it... It's hard to explain... So let me see if I understand. At one point you felt that you may actually have some small "twitch" of feeling for one of the men you are having sex with. When you realized that you didn't have any real feeling for him, you felt better knowing that you could go back to just having sex with a bunch of attached guys and feelings wouldn't get in the way.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 So let me see if I understand. At one point you felt that you may actually have some small "twitch" of feeling for one of the men you are having sex with. When you realized that you didn't have any real feeling for him, you felt better knowing that you could go back to just having sex with a bunch of attached guys and feelings wouldn't get in the way. Not quite... I didn't like that 'twitch' I felt when he told me it was over... I knew I was 'fond' of him though... but I'm glad that I don't feel that way anymore... now that I saw him last night... I know I'm over him... It had nothing to do with all the other guys (married or not), btw they're not all 'attached' some are single.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 Lizzie, have you ever seen Whatever Happened to Baby Jane ? I've seen that movie a loooong time ago.... I don't see what this movie has to do with my thread? ... I don't get it.
underpants Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I was reading more along the lines of... I was having sex with a guy and when he valued his girlfriend more then me I felt ...a competitive twitch. Then when he returned and expressed missing me. I was validated (i.e. I won) thus, I no longer need to play with him. The bonus of implementing a crack in their future relationship is a mere cherry on top. Enjoy the sundee.
herenow Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I was reading more along the lines of... I was having sex with a guy and when he valued his girlfriend more then me I felt ...a competitive twitch. Then when he returned and expressed missing me. I was validated (i.e. I won) thus, I no longer need to play with him. The bonus of implementing a crack in their future relationship is a mere cherry on top. Enjoy the sundee. I agree, that would be my next theory. Probably should have been my first.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 I was reading more along the lines of... I was having sex with a guy and when he valued his girlfriend more then me I felt ...a competitive twitch. Then when he returned and expressed missing me. I was validated (i.e. I won) thus, I no longer need to play with him. The bonus of implementing a crack in their future relationship is a mere cherry on top. Enjoy the sundee. Not at all... I didn't posted everything we talked about in the last few months... it would be waaay too long.. but I knew (and I told him last night) that he had someone... I didn't know the whole story... I didn't know they had bought a house together...but I knew he had someone all along. This guy was fun...and smart (that's probably what attracted me most about him.. he was intelligent, and cute) and my youngest... my baby.. LOL As far as the crack in their future... He has cheated before with her own sister... so I doubt he will ever stop... he says he will...but I know he won't.
Mustang Sally Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Not quite... I didn't like that 'twitch' I felt when he told me it was over... I knew I was 'fond' of him though... but I'm glad that I don't feel that way anymore... now that I saw him last night... I know I'm over him... It had nothing to do with all the other guys (married or not), btw they're not all 'attached' some are single. Could it possibly be that the "twitch" you felt was a "pang of loss" from him telling you that he wasn't going to see you anymore? And then when you saw him again last night, you didn't feel the "twitch" precisely because he is BACK (just as you knew he would be...)? i.e. could it be that it is really the opposite of what you are saying? That indeed you are NOT over him, but feeling better because he is back? I dunno. Just a thought.
serial muse Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Could it possibly be that the "twitch" you felt was a "pang of loss" from him telling you that he wasn't going to see you anymore? And then when you saw him again last night, you didn't feel the "twitch" precisely because he is BACK (just as you knew he would be...)? i.e. could it be that it is really the opposite of what you are saying? That indeed you are NOT over him, but feeling better because he is back? I dunno. Just a thought. This is actually how I read it too.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 Could it possibly be that the "twitch" you felt was a "pang of loss" from him telling you that he wasn't going to see you anymore? And then when you saw him again last night, you didn't feel the "twitch" precisely because he is BACK (just as you knew he would be...)? i.e. could it be that it is really the opposite of what you are saying? That indeed you are NOT over him, but feeling better because he is back? I dunno. Just a thought. Food for thought for sure... but I don't think so... I will know more next time... but I think it was like, I felt this twitch because I thought I wouldn't see him soon, eventhough I knew I would, he talked about maybe a year or so... but I am glad he came back sooner... but I know for sure that I am NOT in love with him... because he's not on my mind that much... I remember when I fell head over heels with a guy in the past, he was on my mind 24/7 LOL... and right now... no one is.
Yamaha Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 You don't believe that a 55 yr old can be just as hot as a 25 yr old... I've got news for you babe! I know I can compete with MOST 25 yr old out there... cause I've had as much 20 yr old in the last 5 years as I had guys my age or even in their 40s... Sometimes I get the 'looks' from 20 something when they're with their gf's... I know those 'looks'... just yesterday, just around the corner from where I work... this guy flirted with me.. then I noticed he was holding his gf's hand. In restaurants... I've seen it more than once. I think it's funny and strange in a way. Why is this so important to you, Lizzy? So what if you get young guys looking at you. You should be way past this kind of need for your ego but your not and I wonder why?????
Trialbyfire Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 I was reading more along the lines of... I was having sex with a guy and when he valued his girlfriend more then me I felt ...a competitive twitch. Then when he returned and expressed missing me. I was validated (i.e. I won) thus, I no longer need to play with him. The bonus of implementing a crack in their future relationship is a mere cherry on top. Enjoy the sundee. Haha...so true, although looking at the bottom quote, he's not much of a catch, nvm a validator... He has cheated before with her own sister... so I doubt he will ever stop... he says he will...but I know he won't.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Why is this so important to you, Lizzy? So what if you get young guys looking at you. You should be way past this kind of need for your ego but your not and I wonder why????? I wondered when someone was going to ask this, given the posts and the various sexy avatars. I guess its one of two things: either a very strong ego, or a flagging one posing as a strong one. My father's second wife was this way. The older she got, the younger she dressed - she would dress like the students she taught at the high school she taught at. The more she worked her tan. The more she worked out. She hung out with teenagers, and played at being one of them. The younger the guys got that cheated on my father with. The last one before the divorce was only 18. She thought she was being 'cool' and 'sexy'. Most people just thought it was kind of sad seeing a woman her age trying so hard to appeal to people decades younger than herself. Of course, the fact that she was an alcoholic didn't help either...
OpenBook Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 I wondered when someone was going to ask this, given the posts and the various sexy avatars. I guess its one of two things: either a very strong ego, or a flagging one posing as a strong one. Why is it that when a MAN acts this way, everyone thinks it's normal but GOD FORBID a WOMAN should act this way. I say f*ck the Ivory Tower. Life is short, and we've got a lot of catching-up to do.
Art_Critic Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Why is it that when a MAN acts this way, everyone thinks it's normal but GOD FORBID a WOMAN should act this way. Whoever says that if a man does it it is normal ?.. 55 years old.. slightly balding going thru their midlife crisis buying the 60k Corvette and getting a GF half their age.. We laugh at those guys and make fun of them but considered perfectly normal they are not..
lovelorcet Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 I wondered when someone was going to ask this, given the posts and the various sexy avatars. I guess its one of two things: either a very strong ego, or a flagging one posing as a strong one. My father's second wife was this way. The older she got, the younger she dressed - she would dress like the students she taught at the high school she taught at. The more she worked her tan. The more she worked out. She hung out with teenagers, and played at being one of them. The younger the guys got that cheated on my father with. The last one before the divorce was only 18. She thought she was being 'cool' and 'sexy'. Most people just thought it was kind of sad seeing a woman her age trying so hard to appeal to people decades younger than herself. Of course, the fact that she was an alcoholic didn't help either... There is so much effort put into her posts to show us how attractive she is to young men. It is an obvious obsession.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 13, 2007 Author Posted September 13, 2007 I wondered when someone was going to ask this, given the posts and the various sexy avatars. I guess its one of two things: either a very strong ego, or a flagging one posing as a strong one. My father's second wife was this way. The older she got, the younger she dressed - she would dress like the students she taught at the high school she taught at. The more she worked her tan. The more she worked out. She hung out with teenagers, and played at being one of them. The younger the guys got that cheated on my father with. The last one before the divorce was only 18. She thought she was being 'cool' and 'sexy'. Most people just thought it was kind of sad seeing a woman her age trying so hard to appeal to people decades younger than herself. Of course, the fact that she was an alcoholic didn't help either... I am soooo the opposite of your father's second wife... This is one of my pet peeve actually, seeing an older woman trying to be a teenager... I think it looks totally ridiculous... I don't wear much make-up...never wear short dresses or skirts.. I also don't drink and do not have a 'tan'... I am very careful with my skin. Am I obsessed with my looks... yes I think I am.... Do I want to grow old and wrinkled and lose my shape? No I don't. Is this weird? I don't think so.
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