AnyMuss85 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Ok, I feel odd doing this, ive been pretty succesful with the ladies the last few years, more so than most of my friends, which is why this whole situation really really irks me.. this is a real long story, I will try to simplify it a bit, Right now im really feeling down and out, i feel like i let go off the best girl i was ever gonna find for me in this world...also, i am kind of protective of her, i worry about her a lot because of some of the people she hangs out with . a little over 3 years ago I became friends with this girl I thought was wonderful, I felt off the bat we had some odd connection even though we were complete opposites. I was hooking up with someone else at the time, by the time I had broken things off with the other person, me and the girl i speak off became pretty close, id like to say we were almost best friends. people always were under the impression that we were an item though, we were always smiling, never argued, people always made comments about how cute we looked... I always felt I had a very different relationship with her than my other chick friends. but i held back because i was just about to go away to school. anyway I went away to college, and things got hard. she went back with an ex boyfriend. and when she told me that on line it she didnt sound happy about it. something along the lines "yea well im kinda back with mike so........" and after a while or friendship went bad after some things i shouldnt have said. we met up again about 6-7 months later, and after a long heart to heart patched things up, but things were still awkward, a couple more fights, and we didnt talk for a long time. she broke up with that boyfriend after about 2 years. i realized the ******* i had been and sent her flowers with a letter saying i had feelings for her (i think im in love) she sent me a message a couple days later saying they were beautiful and we would talk soon. so I ran into her , and she told me to come to a party she was having, anyway, at the party we got in an arguement I dont remember. Supposedly me saying things about bad things about her friends, people that aren't exactly stand up individuals, to say the least, So I told her I was sorry, it was because im jealous and just concerned about her, i asked her out 2 a bite to eat. she didnt respond, i told her just yes or no, its not a big deal if its no, still no response. Anyway we ran into each other at a bar, and I remember nothing about this. and my friends were no help on what had happened either. So I pretty much assumed it defintely wasn't good whatever had happened. so after that, I pretty much for a couple months tried to forget about her, attwempted no contact for a couple months, until I heard she was seeing another guy, I dropped her a really thoughtful message on how I felt,, but i got no resonse, its been a while since, I saw her recently at a party, i spotted her looking right at me she had the biggest ear to ear smile on her face , i ignored her pretty much, it seemed like she walked by me a hell of a lot, saying hey and all that when we made eye contact looking for conversation. I really wasnt having it, and didnt say anything but hows it goin and went on my way... I was really ticked, whats with all these games...Its not supposed to be this way, I mean its obvious she doesnt feel the same so why play these games?
whichwayisup Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 party, i spotted her looking right at me she had the biggest ear to ear smile on her face , i ignored her pretty much Seems you both are playing the cat and mouse game with eachother. If you love her, then put it ALL on the line and GO FOR IT. If it doesn't work out, then atleast you'll know you tried your best. Stop playing games, speak from your heart and talk to her! if you DO end up marrying her later in life, you'll be thankful that you did infact take that first big step and communicate with her.
daZed&confUsed005 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 i know exactly how you feel bro. there is this girl. i went to high school with her and back then it was all fun and games. had no feelings for her. now we are both sophmores in college. it all began this summer when i got hired at this customer service job and to my surprise she was too. we became friends at first, then became even better friends. after about a month or so i started developing these feelings for her. everytime she would talk to someone in a all touchy feely manner it would drive me crazy. i thought about asking her out but thought i should wait and play it out. then in mid august she told me she has been seeing someone who was our instructor for the job training. at first i thought she was just playing but when i found out it was true i was crushed. i spent a couple of days avoiding everyone and sitting in my room listening to sad songs and ****. i didn't feel the same like i used to and she noticed it and asked me why that was so. i just told her that i have things going on in my life which i can't talk about. i tried to tell her how i feel but everytime i think about it the fear of her not liking me back and us losing the friendship we have always stops me. besides seems like she has a good thing going with the other guy. i mean from wat i can tell he seems to be a very nice guy. i tried to be happy for her but i can't seem to bury my feelings for this girl. also i am not quite sure if she likes me or not. she is all touchy and feely with me but thats how she is with everyone. she laughs at everyone of my corny ass jokes even the ones i threw out there to test it out but then again she like to laugh it up. idk i am so confused and wanted some advice. i honestly have no idea of wat to do. i keep trying to bury my feelings deep inside but it is easier said than done. plz help let me know if you want any more details
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