joeyku Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 okay me and my gf broke up exacltly 3 weeks ago... august 21st... and ever since then shes been doing stupid **** to her self... she walled me off saying to never talk to her again because i simply said shes acting like a typical 15 year old (which she ****ing is)... and she took it to heart... and now shes gone back to heavy drinking and both her and I are both miserable... but i miss her and it doesnt seem like she misses me at all... and it just sucks though because i care for her so friggin much and i hate seeing her do this... going back to smoking... drinking... and how much she pretty much wants NOTHING to do with me... she made it pretty clear about that... i just miss her and love her so much because how much i helped her get over her abusive ex bf... and i just helped her and it was the most loving relationship ive ever been in... wtf is going on with her?! she was miserable b4 me and i got her to stop drinking and smoking and she seemed really happy with that lifestyle... until recently... wtf is happening to her? she said that she hated drinking and smoking and ****... but... wtf?!!?!? i dont get whats with her... we were so happy... and ive been getting a bunch of anxiety thinking about her, including anxiety attacks... and im going to the doctor on friday... but.. seriously... could someone please tell me what the hell her deal is???
XxBacktoBlackXx Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I'm sorry to hear about your situation. =( It could be that this is your ex-gf's way of dealing with the breakup. Not to say that it's the healthiest way to do so, cause it sounds as if she's taking the drinking and smoking a bit further than she normally would, but that's what this could be about. People cope with break-ups in different ways, it seems and unfortunately this could be the way she's coping. You said that she doesn't act as if she misses you...while, I'm sure that she does in certain ways. Perhaps you should go NC (No Contact) with her for awhile as contact seems to be bringing you more anxiety than you really deserve. Best wishes.
Curious139 Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Man, I have to say she is 15 - she has a lot of growing up to do yet. You helped her but she has slid back down. Nothing you can do about that except accept you've been a good person and eventually some of that is going to stick with her.
Author joeyku Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 thank you both for the replies... they sound really reasonable... i was REALLY good to her... and i hope she will remember me... if any one can come up with any more ideas let me know =)
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