oliveoil Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 Am I being unreasonable? I have been dating my boyfriend since 2003. When I met him he was already seperated from his wife and two kids with whom he still shares a house. He says that he is not ready to leave the house yet because he is not a in a finacial position to do so. Housing is also pretty espensive and so is rent. I am also looking for a house beacuase I still live by my mother. He says that he wants to be finacially stable. He has a business which he is trying to get stablize and pays employes. He says that he want the business to be grouned first.He says that he does not want to find himself in a position where he cannot afford to support his two kids and has to go to court. Therefore he has not made any serious move to get divorce. I know for sure that he is not involved with his wife. Am I being unreasonable for letting him know that I am not happy with the situation and that he needs to deal with this matter? He says that when the time is right that he will do it and that I am pressuring him. Is it also right for him to say that he wants to be there to see his children grow? Should I have to wait? I sometimes feel like I don't really have any boyfriend because he is still married although he is seperated. Am I wasting my time or am I being unreasonable? what do you think about this situation. He does not sleep with his wife and he does spend nights with me. She know about our relationship and so does the kids and his mother.
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