superm Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 So, My girlfriend and I have been having some issues lately, but we agreed to try things again and be good to each other. We've been together over 2 years and were pretty serious. Anyway, recently I found out she send pictures to this guy who is just a "friend". Basically she made an album with pictures (nothing scandalous) but made an album of pictures with non including me and sent it to him. Does this sound like something I should get angry about? I'm not sure what to do. On the one hand, making it an issue is gonna push her away, on the other, I feel like she is doing things that are wrong. What should I do?
Tony T Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 You shouldn't bring anything to her attention that you found by snooping. She deserves her privacy. Monitor her activity with this other guy and if it gets out of hand, just move on. Right now, all she's done is send pictures of herself. If this guy is not a good friend of hers, then I'd say you have grounds for leaving her. It's not right just to be sending her pictures to some guy. But you have absolutely no right to tell her she can't. You only have a right to get out of her life. On your way out the door, you absolutely can...in a very nice way...question her about her photo mail. But would you really expect to get an honest, no BS, answer?
Trialbyfire Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 If you slip the topic into your conversation, without reference to what you saw, perhaps a comment about sending friends pictures, and see if she fesses up, you might have a chance at recovering your trust. Since the pics are harmless ones, she might not see it as a big deal. If she hides this from you, even in a discussion, you know your answer.
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