W is stalking me again??????

[Impudent Oyster]

And what exactly is your role and justification for being here?

 

I don't need any justification...but as a former BS, the thought process and musings of the OW are absolutely fascinating to me.

 

I always have been amazed by how someone would agree to be an OW, and as GG says, it's incredibly entertaining.

 

Thanks for playing.

[annabelle75]

I don't need any justification...but as a former BS, the thought process and musings of the OW are absolutely fascinating to me.

 

I always have been amazed by how someone would agree to be an OW, and as GG says, it's incredibly entertaining.

 

Thanks for playing.

 

Your condescention makes you appear even more pathetic. Stop trying to relieve your H's affair in a way where you get to demean the OW. Its sad really. Move on with your life.

[child_of_isis]

I would almost bet that hubby is out catting around again and she is just checking to see if it is with you.

 

I wouldn't think that she is stalking you, per se...but her hubby. Most likely he has a new OW.

 

I would stop her and talk to her. Ask her what's up...get the scoop.

 

Anyway, the past weekend, I have seen her 3 times in 24 hours circling my house (I live on a corner). I haven't been looking for her either so I wonder how many times I have just not seen her... WTF is this that all about???? Why after all this time is she back?

[Tomcat33]

I don't need any justification...but as a former BS, the thought process and musings of the OW are absolutely fascinating to me.

 

I always have been amazed by how someone would agree to be an OW,

 

 

 

If you could learn to shut your trap for a while and just take it all in, and contribute to the discussions in a way that helps instead of puts down, you might actually learn something by hanging out here.

But I don't really think you are here to learn, that's giving you too much credit.

[Impudent Oyster]

Your condescention makes you appear even more pathetic. Stop trying to relieve your H's affair in a way where you get to demean the OW. Its sad really. Move on with your life.

 

Did you mean to say condescension?

[Impudent Oyster]

If you could learn to shut your trap for a while .

 

Oh now I'm really curious, what do you do for a living? It obviously requires no literacy and zero diplomacy. Plus you have loads of free time to rag on BS's over the WWW.

 

I hope no one is tracking your internet usage!

[RealityCheck]

Oh now I'm really curious, what do you do for a living? It obviously requires no literacy and zero diplomacy. Plus you have loads of free time to rag on BS's over the WWW.

 

I hope no one is tracking your internet usage!

 

Gee, now that we know, you sit at the PC with dictonery in hand, spellchecking OW's words! You really do need to get a life!

 

That is pathetic!

[Impudent Oyster]

Gee, now you sit at the PC with dictonery in hand,

 

Sweetheart, I don't have a dictionAry in my hands, just a functioning knowledge of the English language.

 

I happen to be contributing quite a bit. I'm offering up the viewpoint that;

 

A) The OP is making something out of nothing,

B) When you sleep with MM you have to expect that the wife might be a tad concerned, and oh gee, she might drive by your house a few times, BIG DEAL, you slept with her husband, she's entitled! And finally;

C) Four months is not nearly long enough to get over the nagging suspicion of being betrayed. The wife still needs reassurance that he's NOT breaking NC.

[RealityCheck]

Sweetheart, I don't have a dictionAry in my hands, just a functioning knowledge of the English language.

 

I happen to be contributing quite a bit. I'm offering up the viewpoint that;

 

A) The OP is making something out of nothing,

B) When you sleep with MM you have to expect that the wife might be a tad concerned, and oh gee, she might drive by your house a few times, BIG DEAL, you slept with her husband, she's entitled! And finally;

C) Four months is not nearly long enough to get over the nagging suspicion of being betrayed. The wife still needs reassurance that he's NOT breaking NC.

 

Culture your pearl hunny, culture your pearl!!!

[Impudent Oyster]

If you could learn to shut your trap for a while and just take it all in, and contribute to the discussions in a way that helps instead of puts down, you might actually learn something by hanging out here.

But I don't really think you are here to learn, that's giving you too much credit.

 

Priceless. What are you offering on this thread, other than insults? The wife is crazy, she should be over it by now, she's pathetic, she should divorce her husband, she needs a job, blah, blah, blah.......it's all just noise, not a constructive comment in the whole simplistic rant.

[Tomcat33]

I hope no one is tracking your internet usage!

 

 

I would hope not, I'd hate to have to subject my colleagues to the all the nonsense you write. :lmao:

 

Don't worry about what I do. It beats spying around town on my H infront of the OW's lawn to kill my time, that's for sure! :laugh:

[greengoddess]

Now run along and go spy on your H before I sleep with him too. :laugh:

I said I would bever be with a taken man again but in your case I would do it purely for sport. :lmao:

 

wow just wow! This statement says so much about your psyche. Incredibly sad.

 

So is sex a power thing for you? Do you use it to feel superior?

[RealityCheck]

wow just wow! This statement says so much about your psyche. Incredibly sad.

 

So is sex a power thing for you? Do you use it to feel superior?

 

SEX is power for anybody!

 

Do you know how much having sex does for a person!

 

Hell, I can run a marathon after!

[Tomcat33]

Priceless. What are you offering on this thread,

 

 

My opinion on what I think of the stalking BS. I believe all the things I've said in this thred, in varying degrees. If a person allows themselves to become a stalker they need help or they need to accept they have an odd passtime in the least.

 

Burried Alive asked why we thought she was doing it I said "trouble in paradise, she is thinking her H is still with her" it all went downhill from there...of course if I had said "burried alive, the BS is doing what any normal person would do, to patrol the house of the OW because her H loves her and her H is being faithful to her" Then only then would all the monkeys get off my back. But I am not going to say that beause I don't see it that way.

 

I see a woman who signed up for a lifetime of PI'ng on her free time. Most BSs become obsessed with PIng after and A, why would this be any different? HOW COULD YOU NOT? the person you though was your best friend, the love of your life, the one an only who would not hurt you, turns around and stabs you with a dagger and you are supposed to pay a blind eye? NO WAY!!! any person would turn into a spying maniac after that. WHICH IS WHY I think cheaters should not be forgiven FOR THE BS's OWN SANITY. The woman in this case is going down a slipery sloap and this is just the begining and it is really sad to see a woman get so consumed with trying to catch a man again, there are a few examples here on LS of women who have been pushed to the brink of their sane point and they are so obsessed and consumed by the PI'ng aspect post A that it makes me sick to see that a human being can waste their life away like that!

 

I give a RAT"S A$$ about the cheater. She can keep him bow and all, been there done that got the T-shirt. But of course you WOULD only see what you want to see in my statement because all you do is sit on your fat cushion and dish out crap to anyone who SEEMS to even remotely resemble your ARCH ENEMY whom ever that may be, yourself maybe?

[annabelle75]

Did you mean to say condescension?

 

That's your only response to what I said? What a joke.

 

Sorry, I'm too busy litigating a tax case to check my typos on a chat forum. Why don't you go back and finish watching Oprah now.

[sadbuttrue]

things are getting a little heated here ladies

[annabelle75]

things are getting a little heated here ladies

 

I just spent and hour and the phone with an IRS agent with a Jersey accent. I admit it ... I am IN A MOOD.

 

Argue at your own risk.

[Tomcat33]

wow just wow! This statement says so much about your psyche. Incredibly sad.

 

So is sex a power thing for you? Do you use it to feel superior?

 

 

No actually what is says is that a lot of the things you say are a joke, therefore I just take the pi$$ at what you say.

 

Isn't sex a power thing for you too? I use it to make me and my partner feel good, isn't that what sex was intended for?

[sadbuttrue]

sex is a wonderful tool

[RealityCheck]

sex is a wonderful tool

 

Yes! of course!

 

It's the most fun two people can have without spending any money!!!!

 

:lmao::lmao:

[Lizzie60]

I was wondering if maybe someone can tell me what the heck this means.... MM & I have been in NC for more than 4 months after I met with his W about 3 weeks after D-day after she kept driving around my house & showing up at my work. Anyway, the last time I talked to her was more than 3 months ago when she told me her therapist didn't want her talking to me - that she had to stop feeling the need to get her answers from me when they should be coming from her husband (because he is SUCH an honest guy!). Since then I have only seen her around town a few times when we both don't acknowledge each other. I haven't seen her around my house all summer.

 

Anyway, the past weekend, I have seen her 3 times in 24 hours circling my house (I live on a corner). I haven't been looking for her either so I wonder how many times I have just not seen her... WTF is this that all about???? Why after all this time is she back?

 

Her H is probably cheating again (what else is new LOL) and she's probably wondering if he's back with you... I can't see any other reasons why she would circle around your house...

[Lizzie60]

Totally nuts!!! The poor woman is losing her marbles and instead of getting her life together and doing something right for her she is letting herself get consumed in this insanity...so sad! But as I said some people are just masochists.

 

It is sad that she is consumed by his cheating... She should kick him to the curb... and move on with her life... It is sad...

[Lizzie60]

Why should people spend money if they are willing to do it themselves? I have no problems with this.

 

because a PI have no 'emotions' involved... that's the big difference... but either way ...why waste money or your energy on the cheater...

[Lizzie60]

AND there we have it ladies and gentlemen EXIBIT B: (exhibit A happened in another thread last week) THE DOUBLE STANDARD.

 

But of course, when it's the BS doing the stalking she is preparing her amunition for the D (which coincidentally does happen even after she has a whole trunk filled with evidence) , when it's the OW doing the stalking she is psycho! :lmao:

 

I agree... double standard!

[Lizzie60]

Read it again, what is the clause that is being considered in court in this particular story and why? Or are you trying to tell us you have mental illness and can't relate to this article because it doesn't speak of what you have in particular? It says that unless they can prove that an A was truly debilitating to the health of the BS the Canadian courts are NOT willing to let the A clause creep back into the system.

 

BOTTOM LINE our laws chaged from the 70s to NO FAULT laws in divorce. So unless they make up your own laws for you, save it with the "the more evidence you have the more you get from him in court" because you DON'T. Unless you can prove he made you mental. Again, if that's your case then I can see why your 5K PI was worth every penny.

 

I've never been married but from what I heard, in Canada it's a NO fault laws in divorce. You split half and half... make decent arrangements for the kids..and here you go... each your way. I also can't see why someone would spend so much cash unless they're hiring a 'Hell's Angel' to take care of them...LOL