Newtotheblogthing Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 My ex has a new girlfriend and I am losing mind. Here's the background. We broke up (technically) in late April after 3 years togther. I went away for 2 months and had minimal contact with him. I knew he was devastated but he waited for me to return and I still wasn't sure if I wanted to get back together with him so I kept him at arms length. We still talked and texted everyday and saw each other twice which was very emotionally. "He is so in love with me" etc.. I am still in love with him as well. Well, a month ago, I start to make more of an effort in the hopes that the time apart has done both of us some good. We make plans but something seems off. But he still calls and we text all the time. Well, 3 weeks ago we meet for dinner and he tells me he is seeing someone. I become hysterical, he is crying, then he switches to anger and tells me how hard it was for him while I was gone. He would call my voicemail to listen to my voice. He was devastated. Now he is moving on. My sadness actually made him angry. Since then I realize it's the girl he mentioned who was all over him and she happens to be his next door neighbor. Two weeks ago after he had been drinking he tells me to come over. So I did. We made love and he tells me again he loves me and that he had been waiting for this etc.. The next day he feels guilty as his new girlfriend lives next door and she was there.. I am now completely devastated as I am not his priority and he is frustrated by my inability to move on. I am needy, I know it. So what is going on in his head? Is she a rebound? Is he really moving on? What do I do? Will he miss me and eventually realize it? I texted him today and asked him to tell me he doesn't love me and is not in love with me. I have yet to get a reply. Any thoughts? I know I need to cut contact but I am going CRAZY!! Please help.
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