Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 Are you looking for perfection in a woman or a relationship? If so, you'll always be chasing the end of the rainbow. Every_single_person_I_know, has issues. I don't know you but with your posts, you definitely have issues. With this in mind, why do you expect more from a woman than you are able to deliver yourself? Be reasonable. Don't invest too soon. The slower you take it, the more time you have to get to know someone, to gauge compatibility. I didn't expect her or anyone to be perfect. I do demand mutual respect. I have dated ONCE woman that could even offer me 1/2 of what I could offer them. Go ahead and flame me, but it's true.
Trialbyfire Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 I didn't expect her or anyone to be perfect. I do demand mutual respect. I have dated ONCE woman that could even offer me 1/2 of what I could offer them. Go ahead and flame me, but it's true. Once again, you are the common denominator. Are you settling for the wrong calibre of woman? Are you giving far too much, so they treat you like a doormat? Why are you so upset after only two or three weeks of dating? Start looking back at the women you've attached yourself to. What are the commonalities with these women? Why are you attracted to these types? Are you reenacting a form of cycling, from a historical hurt?
Kamille Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 I am a prick why? Because I amde a stand? God forbid a man stand up for himself. A sfor lesbians, to each their own. God forbid a woman make a choice that makes you unhappy. Women should be at the mercy of any self-proclaimed good guy who comes her way. Else he will get really really mad. Anyways! She is not a liar. I don't see how you can interpret her letting you into your life to get to know you, dating you, and then realizing that you couldn't replace her ex as a lie. Face it, she wasn't into you. She is still more into her ex. She prefered not to drag things on with you and to let you know about it. I know you're feeling sorry for yourself and you would rather blame someone for your emotions then actually take responsiblity for it, but this does not make her a bad person. And it certainly doesn't make all women bad people. PP, I would recommand some anger management classes based on that message you left on her phone and your reaction to what is nothing but the give and take of being out there dating. Your anger is yours to manage.
Kamille Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 I didn't expect her or anyone to be perfect. I do demand mutual respect. I have dated ONCE woman that could even offer me 1/2 of what I could offer them. Go ahead and flame me, but it's true. Ok this is not a flaming. I just wonder what lies behind the fact that you have never met a woman who is more of a match for you. And I am going to ask questions to figure it out. What did this perticular woman, who could offer you 1/2, offer that made her a good match?
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 God forbid a woman make a choice that makes you unhappy. Women should be at the mercy of any self-proclaimed good guy who comes her way. Else he will get really really mad. Anyways! She is not a liar. I don't see how you can interpret her letting you into your life to get to know you, dating you, and then realizing that you couldn't replace her ex as a lie. Face it, she wasn't into you. She is still more into her ex. She prefered not to drag things on with you and to let you know about it. I know you're feeling sorry for yourself and you would rather blame someone for your emotions then actually take responsiblity for it, but this does not make her a bad person. And it certainly doesn't make all women bad people. PP, I would recommand some anger management classes based on that message you left on her phone and your reaction to what is nothing but the give and take of being out there dating. Your anger is yours to manage. Oh I manage my anger alright. I don't think I am prepared to take "classes" because some chic wants to be a flake. It isn't me with the problem, after all I am not the one with unresolved feelings and dating. I'll just tell her off and move on. She's a cunt.
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 Ok this is not a flaming. I just wonder what lies behind the fact that you have never met a woman who is more of a match for you. And I am going to ask questions to figure it out. What did this perticular woman, who could offer you 1/2, offer that made her a good match? She has no ties with the ex, is attractive, smart and funny. She also has a decent career going and is a hard worker. I don't know her extremely well as I have only hung out with her a few times. That is a good start.... I look for that to blow up in my face when I tell her I enjoy smoking herb. Don't much care for drinking but herb is my medicine. I look for her to discard all of my other qualities and judge me because I smoke. I want to tell her that I do but I am afraid because I actually like her. Would be cool to sit down and enjoy a spliff together.....
Lishy Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Oh you are a puff head? Yeah you have alot to offer!!!!!!!!!!!! You are ignorant and arrogant with nothing to offer except some cigerettes and a free dinner so get used to being kicked to the kerb!
annabelle75 Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Oh I manage my anger alright. I don't think I am prepared to take "classes" because some chic wants to be a flake. It isn't me with the problem, after all I am not the one with unresolved feelings and dating. I'll just tell her off and move on. She's a c***. I was really trying to understadn what you were saying and maybe even defend you until I got to this post. Once you used the c-word you lost me. That shows a true lack of class or any sort of respect for women. Shame on you.
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 Oh you are a puff head? Yeah you have alot to offer!!!!!!!!!!!! You are ignorant and arrogant with nothing to offer except some cigerettes and a free dinner so get used to being kicked to the kerb! Exactly what I expected from such a simple mind. I smoke weed, but I don't drink or take any pills. Next time you are rummaging through your prescription meds, you might recall this conversation.
Kamille Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 She has no ties with the ex, is attractive, smart and funny. She also has a decent career going and is a hard worker. I don't know her extremely well as I have only hung out with her a few times. That is a good start.... I look for that to blow up in my face when I tell her I enjoy smoking herb. Don't much care for drinking but herb is my medicine. I look for her to discard all of my other qualities and judge me because I smoke. I want to tell her that I do but I am afraid because I actually like her. Would be cool to sit down and enjoy a spliff together..... Suddenly I'm wondering if what's lying behind your outrage at women's behavior isn't your incapacity to identify what type of emotional connection you are looking for. And isn't your fear of what she might do when she finds out you smoke exactly what you have been doing to women when they don't meet your expectations? You discard all of their other qualities and judge them because 1) they're divorced 2) they date other people 3) they're just not that into you. Wait a minute! PP, you're scared sh*tless of women! And probably even more afraid of intimacy. Do you have a hard time letting yourself go when you are with a woman? How were you raised as a child? were your parents very strict? How did they punish you when you misbehaved?
Kamille Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 PP, how often do you want us to repeat that after 2-3 weeks dating, anyone (men or women) can honestly decide that they would rather not get involved. She did not mislead you or abuse you. She let you know when she figured out she didn't want to be with you anymore. You would get much better LS responses - and much less agressive ones- if you took a moment to consider the ounce of truth there is in everyone of them. I would be very interested in hearing your answers to my previous posts. Perhaps though, you don't feel like questionning yourself on matters of intimacy.
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 Oh do you mean the prescription pills I took for 6 weeks and that have helped me quit smoking for good? Do you mean those tablets? That girl had a lucky escape and when you come out of your weed induced stupor and grow up you may see that too! Oh and could you let us all know who the 'good guy' is that you mention in your header? If I met you I would go running back to my ex too and that is saying something! Just think of this, read every answer (there are 5 pages to choose from) and find one person who agrees with you ... The majority of posters on here agree that she had a lucky escape - But I bet in your weed raddled head you dont even notice that! Good guy ..... hahhahahahhahaha This post only proves what a shallow minded person you are! People like you make me sick!!! it's okay to go to the bar and get hammered, but one must not smoke weed!!! Weed has killed no one, ever! Weed is 100% natural and is often prescribed for Medicinal purposes. YOU ARE THE LOSER for judging. Many, many americans smoke weed so I suggest you get off your high horse. Please educate yourself... no wonder this country is in such bad shape!
Curmudgeon Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Oh I manage my anger alright. I don't think I am prepared to take "classes" because some chic wants to be a flake. It isn't me with the problem, after all I am not the one with unresolved feelings and dating. I'll just tell her off and move on. She's a cunt. You've done little but belittle women in general and this one in particular because she had the temerity to REJECT you. That's indicative of either an ego problem, a borderline personality problem, a narcissistic personality problem and/or an anger management problem. Take your choice. The bottom line is that she wasn't that into you. Either that or she saw you for what you've portrayed yourself to be here and likely really are and wisely decided to distance herself from you.
Kasan Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 This post only proves what a shallow minded person you are! People like you make me sick!!! it's okay to go to the bar and get hammered, but one must not smoke weed!!! Weed has killed no one, ever! Weed is 100% natural and is often prescribed for Medicinal purposes. Do you smoke weed for medicinal purposes?
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 You've done little but belittle women in general and this one in particular because she had the temerity to REJECT you. That's indicative of either an ego problem, a borderline personality problem, a narcissistic personality problem and/or an anger management problem. Take your choice. The bottom line is that she wasn't that into you. Either that or she saw you for what you've portrayed yourself to be here and likely really are and wisely decided to distance herself from you. ONE LAST TIME, she is an immature little twit and I put her in her place!!! I don't give a crap what you think! F her and f you too. She did herself such a big favor...... mm okay. Everything was cool until she flaked, especially when she needed something. Now take your one sided mind and get off my thread. Grow some balls man!!!
Lishy Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Hey I have no problem that you smoke weed, but you now have that typical weed mentality and it is ruining you. You call yourself a good guy and then call a girl a c**t because she didnt wanna date you. I actually dont blame her fro not wanting to date you. I wouldnt want to either. You dated her for 3 weeks and because you bought her a few dinners and some cigs you expect her to stick with you forever? Isnt she entitled to decide for herself who she dates? Dating is just that, its not marriage. You are not the good guy and this post proves that but yet you remain here spewing your nastiness anyway. No one here is agreeing with you, CANT YOU SEE THAT??????? Grow up and maybe you will stand a chance with a decent girl. Who is the loser???
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 This post only proves what a shallow minded person you are! People like you make me sick!!! it's okay to go to the bar and get hammered, but one must not smoke weed!!! Weed has killed no one, ever! Weed is 100% natural and is often prescribed for Medicinal purposes. Do you smoke weed for medicinal purposes? Absolutely. Now ya'll run along to your doctors for your prescription meds.
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 You dated her for 3 weeks and because you bought her a few dinners and some cigs you expect her to stick with you forever? Isnt she entitled to decide for herself who she dates? Dating is just that, its not marriage. Yeah, well she could have taken me to dinner. Why not? Cause she is a cheap, selfish b@tch! You seem to miss my point about how women use men. I hope the next guy she meets seriously screws her over.
Curmudgeon Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Weed has killed no one, ever! Weed is 100% natural and is often prescribed for Medicinal purposes. YOU ARE THE LOSER for judging. Many, many americans smoke weed so I suggest you get off your high horse. As a former state narcotics agent, and one who keeps up with the medical and psychological issues involved with drug use (and THC is a drug in case you've missed that), I can tell you that while your argument echos that of every other USER, you're mostly wrong! Most of the "prescriptions" are bogus even though THC does help increase appetite and hold down nausea for the select FEW who really need it. Many Americans commit crimes. Does that make it right. Sheesh! A touch of logic and a pinch of reality that's not self-serving would be most refreshing at this point. In balance, considering her rejection of you, is that you seem to be a know-it-all doper. I don't blame her.
Krytellan Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 PP, maybe she didn't like that you don't understand the concept of give giving or don't believe in romance. You think THAT might have something to do with it? I would say look to yourself. Not everyone is a "good guy" just because they declare themself to be... it actually takes a certain personality and temperament to be a good guy, and I don't pick up on either of those from you. People are quick to label themselves as "good guys" when their g/f goes off with some "jerk" or "crappy ex", but it's only a label. It is just as likely that this guy was a "gooder guy" than you are. Think about that possibility.
Curmudgeon Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 ONE LAST TIME, she is an immature little twit and I put her in her place!!! I don't give a crap what you think! F her and f you too. She did herself such a big favor...... mm okay. Everything was cool until she flaked, especially when she needed something. Now take your one sided mind and get off my thread. Grow some balls man!!! Nope! No anger management problem here. LOL! You're would still be funny if you weren't so pathetically needy. Gonads are just fine, thank you. Mature and fully grown. So much so, in fact, that I don't need to pump them up which seems to be what you're all about.
Lishy Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Yeah, well she could have taken me to dinner. Why not? Cause she is a cheap, selfish b@tch! You seem to miss my point about how women use men. I hope the next guy she meets seriously screws her over. You are truly a nasty and vile piece of work!!!! I feel sorry for any girl you meet.
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 Many Americans commit crimes. Does that make it right. Many Americans never question why laws have been written and follow blindly like sheep in a herd. MJ was regulated in the early 1900's and associated with blacks. Times have changed, my friend. In case you haven't noticed alcohol is also a drug whick kills thousands of people every year. Weed has killed 0 in the history of man. Who do you trust? Man or nature?
Woggle Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 I agree that most women love it when a man treats them like crap so I understand where you are coming from but just forget about her. There is no need to keep calling her and trying to tell her off. Be glad you dodged a bullet this early in the relationship. As for being a weedhead I see nothing wrong with it though I don't smoke weed anymore. Drugs do nothing for me. I see nothing wrong with recreational use but I don't feel any high when I use. Don't worry about the women on here because women will always get mad when you don't worship at the altar of womanhood. You are a man so you are not allowed to have feelings according to them.
Author peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 You are truly a nasty and vile piece of work!!!! I feel sorry for any girl you meet. Great. The will get a taste of what they deserve, because not many other men have the balls necessary to call a spade a spade!
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