Luthatdude Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 This girl i've been seeing a few months (not my girlfriend yet) cant seem to get over her moron ex boyfriend. I cant understand it since hes a waste of life and treats her like trash (in everyway.) My main thing is when were together its awesome its like were in love but then when i leave for tour i hear shes hanging with him probley sex too. I told her basically that im done with this back and fourth game and its cool if were still friends but its gone beyond a sex thing and its not cool for me anymore. Im seeing other girls now and i know thats eating at her. I just wanna make sure im making the right choice cause i was crazy about this girl. I just cant be that piece of trash dude she might be into. I can just be me. Do u think she'll get a freakin clue down the road? If so should i chance it with her again? It really is my own fault cause i knew she was FRESH out of a breakup and still did what i did which was dumb. But what if the timing was different next time around?
Krytellan Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Do u think she'll get a freakin clue down the road? If so should i chance it with her again? It really is my own fault cause i knew she was FRESH out of a breakup and still did what i did which was dumb. But what if the timing was different next time around? The sooner you stop caring about the answers to these questions, the more you will enjoy your life. When you stop asking these questions, you'll know you're ready to move on.
Trialbyfire Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Never, never, never get involved with someone who's still fixated with an ex. They need time to get over it or you will end up to be the rebound guy. In your situation, it's worse than that, since she's probably still involved with him. Stay away...far away...
peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 I am going through a very similar situation. I started dating a girl and we were hot & heavy for a few weeks. I was actually very excited about her. Yesterday she dropped the ex-bomb on me. She dumped him, because it "wasn't going anywhere". But she heard he was moving on and realized she still has feelings for him. So she consciously decides to stop being romantic with me because of some guy it didn't work out with. Seems like sabotage to me. This is what I get from it: "I don't want to pursue something that could be great, because I am still attached to something that wasn't." It makes no sense at all to me! Girls are freaking weird....... the end.
Balalaika Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Girls who like bad boys who treat them badly will either keep running back to bad boy, or find another bad boy who'll treat her bad, or, mess up bad with the good guy who treats her good so she can go back to feeling bad. Make sense?.
peace_pipe Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Girls who like bad boys who treat them badly will either keep running back to bad boy, or find another bad boy who'll treat her bad, or, mess up bad with the good guy who treats her good so she can go back to feeling bad. Make sense?. Yeah, it makes perfect sense. This is why I have become a serial-dater. I wish the girl in question would read this.
Author Luthatdude Posted September 11, 2007 Author Posted September 11, 2007 I've heard all this before and i know im making the right choice just backing off. The thing that sucks is that this is happening with a girl that im so into. Its been a while since i was this stoked on a girl. Shes just way too confused and this situation is way to sketchy. Shes trying to lure me back in and im standing my ground on it. I just dont wanna be walked on anymore. This sucks.
JCD Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 You need to tell her that you like her but this constant back and forth is wearing you out. Tell her that when she stops being confused and knows what she wants then she can contact you. Meanwhile, you go on and date others because you don't know if this girl will ever become yours.
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