whichwayisup Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Yeah, I'm done on your thread. You need help but aren't willing to hear any advice, you're hellbent on ruining a family because your ego is hurt.
Author lilablue Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 That's ok. I understand. I know I am a bit obessessed. Oh well. I am still going to ruin them all. Bye
My_Other_I Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 So you've been dating him since this summer and "before he hadn't contacted you in months". You've also had "unprotected sex-oral, anal, whatever" but you are "not stupid, you always use protection". Heh?! You are either lying, trolling or are in desperate need of attention no matter what. Girl, get your story straight. Nothing you've said makes any sense what so ever. You just keep throwing in the same argument over and over again on top of the occasional contradiction you treat us to. If you're for real I'd say you need some serious help. NOW.
lovernotafighter Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I so badly want to ignore this thread but it just keeps compelling me to read on..and on...and on. wow now I thought I was funny, I now crown you drama queen extraordinaire!! I love you, thanks for the fun read :-)
PoshPrincess Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I so badly want to ignore this thread but it just keeps compelling me to read on..and on...and on. wow now I thought I was funny, I now crown you drama queen extraordinaire!! I love you, thanks for the fun read :-) Me too! This is better than any soap. Full of contradictions though! I don't normally agree with telling the W and LilaBlue does sound every so slightly unhinged, I have to say, but in this case, the MM sounds like a complete a**hole and I think his W and kids certainly deserve better (if any of it's true, that is).
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Perhaps it is best that she does tell the wife. That way, they can address the cheating problem through counseling or divorce, get STD testing, and above all get a restraining order taken out on Lila. I expect they will end up needing one. In a case like this, not telling might result in Lila getting herself all worked up into a murderous lather - and the results could be far worse in the end.
PoshPrincess Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Perhaps it is best that she does tell the wife. That way, they can address the cheating problem through counseling or divorce, get STD testing, and above all get a restraining order taken out on Lila. I expect they will end up needing one. In a case like this, not telling might result in Lila getting herself all worked up into a murderous lather - and the results could be far worse in the end. Unfortunately these Rs tend to drive us pretty insane. I feel that Lila will do something she is going to end up seriously regretting later on when she is feeling slightly MORE sane. She will end up hurting herself more than anyone else.
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 That's ok. I understand. I know I am a bit obessessed. Oh well. I am still going to ruin them all. Bye Hmmm....I do believe you must be doing the coke as well! Tell me something, during your sexcapades did the MM use protection on his face as well? I'm getting the sense that you posted this thread for the shear enjoyment of getting a rise out of people. Joke is on you! Be prepared woman! Because if this is your game, you will loose!
PoshPrincess Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 I'm getting the sense that you posted this thread for the shear enjoyment of getting a rise out of people. You gotta admit that it IS quite entertaining, unless it IS all true in which case it's just pretty sad.
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 You gotta admit that it IS quite entertaining, unless it IS all true in which case it's just pretty sad. PP.... The joke is on her!
PoshPrincess Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 You're not wrong. Seriously unstable!
brownsugah Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Just my personal opinion, but I think you should out him. Yes it will hurt his wife, but she needs to know what type of man she is dealing with. If he is having unprotected sex with you, who know who else he is shagging. This is putting her and her children at risk.
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 You're not wrong. Seriously unstable! Yes. This is a case where the DNA malfunctioned.....:lmao:
PoshPrincess Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Yes. This is a case where the DNA malfunctioned.....:lmao: It's pretty scary. Mind you, I think all MM should get a dose of Lila. Wish I could send her round to mine
RealityCheck Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 It's pretty scary. Mind you, I think all MM should get a dose of Lila. Wish I could send her round to mine Well hun, I am sure the OP would be more than willing to accomodate. However, I wouldn't send her to a pig farm. That has more class!
Impudent Oyster Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Well, I really think it was stupid of him to think that he could ignore me for almost a month. Where have I heard that before? Oh yes, "I will not be ignored, Dan" Hey Lila, did you see the movie? Do you remember what happened to Alex in the end?
reboot Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Uh.... something pretty fishy here. The unprotected sex contradiction for one. Earlier she claims the guy and his wife have 2 children, then later calls him a newlywed. I'm not sure I'm buying all this.
Author lilablue Posted September 13, 2007 Author Posted September 13, 2007 He has a child from a previous relationship. The little girl lives with them. The second child is from his wife. She was pregnant when they got married. SATISFIED.
Impudent Oyster Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 So, have you told her yet? What are you waiting for?
Author lilablue Posted September 13, 2007 Author Posted September 13, 2007 I am sending it on Friday. She does not work on Tuesday, Wednesday, and tomorrow is a holiday. She is a substitute teacher. It will be done.
RealityCheck Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 I am sending it on Friday. She does not work on Tuesday, Wednesday, and tomorrow is a holiday. She is a substitute teacher. It will be done. You know woman! You are an absolute mess! You actually have the W's teaching schedule lodged in your brain down to premeditating when you are going to drop the bomb! Sick! The W is a Teacher of kids and you are actually going to move her into a space where it will affect not only her own children but the children she teaches! Only a dark spirited human being would dream of such a thing! Let go of the MM and leave his W in peace! Shame on you!!!!
Impudent Oyster Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 I am sending it on Friday. She does not work on Tuesday, Wednesday, and tomorrow is a holiday. She is a substitute teacher. It will be done. Oh so you're going to inform her of this while she's at work? Charming.
Author lilablue Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 Why not??? Dont feel sorry for her. The wife knew he was cheater when she married him. He fathered a child from a married woman. The woman had to wait to get a paternity test to determine if it was her husband or the MM.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 14, 2007 Posted September 14, 2007 Ok, so she already knows her husband is a cheater. What reaction do you expect the wife to have? I expect she will react like she did every other time her H cheated: she will think to herself "he may cheat, but its me he comes home to" and go on with her business. I'm not sure why you think telling her will have any effect, if she already knows her husband is a cheater. I doubt MM will suffer from much fallout. He will either gaslight her into believing that you are nuts, or he will simply give the same apologies/begging her not to leave song and dance. And you know what? It will probably work, too. Your "confession" will be nothing more than ammunition used against you when MM and his W gang up on you. Don't be surprised to be served with a restraining order, or find your affair exposed to people you don't want it exposed to.
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