Trialbyfire Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Is romance always a card to play or are there men who are genuinely romantic? Seems to me there are some men out there who are romantic souls. Not that over-the-top romance is attractive either. Too much moosh isn't attractive in a man, IMO.
Author Cad Rake Posted September 13, 2007 Author Posted September 13, 2007 Actually I meant please elaborate on the "hormonal trance breaking" part. Yes there are definitely romantic guys out there. To-the-core romantics who don't play games (or rarely) and who love at a very deep level. If they matched up with a woman who is the same, it can be a great relationship. If they matched up with a woman who plays games and doesn't love at that same deep level, they can get suckered BIG TIME.
Trialbyfire Posted September 13, 2007 Posted September 13, 2007 Which my original response addressed. Actions have to match or exceed words. You can spew all the nonsense you want but when you don't pull through, sooner or later the gig will be up. No one can continue lying or practicing deceit for the rest of their lives.
Author Cad Rake Posted September 14, 2007 Author Posted September 14, 2007 eh, not really, but never mind.
Green Posted September 14, 2007 Posted September 14, 2007 of course no one is naturaly romantic, you see a movie or talk to your dad or mom or what ever or read book and you follow that. I mean for god sakes they show you how to make valentine day cards as a kid with hart shapes and cut out lace. You have to learn it and think about it. I think your getting caught up in the semantics of whats natural and whats not. bottom line girls like whitty guys, so keep your wits about you and keep em sharp if you want to counter bitchs. best way to counter a bitch dump her and never speak to her again hows that for genuine
MystifiedByMen Posted September 15, 2007 Posted September 15, 2007 Q: What should do is when she pulls away and becomes distant? A: Suddenly become more mysterious on what your daily activities are and who you're hanging out with. Be friendly and upbeat while talking to her but keep it short and be very "busy". When she becomes distant, I assume you two still at least talk. Mention you have a great offer to hang out with someone tonight (because she's busy) and you're about to have a great time. This will surly get her attention and will give you the other hand. Option #2: Call her out on her ridiculous games and tell her you don't have time for her nonsense. Tell her that if she keeps it up, you're moving on. THAT will get her to take notice that you won’t deal with her crap which will then give you the upper hand. If you lose her over asking for the respect you deserve, then she's a loser and you should just move on.
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