DateAnalyzer Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 This guy she is interested only wants to spend time with her indoors and not take her out anywhere and she askes me-"why would he not want to go outdoors? I know the answer because It's certain girls I put a INDOOR label on and that's probably what he is doing with her and I'm really sick of hearing about him and trying not to get nasty since it's obvious he is not interested in her for a relationship. So i guess I have to avoid her calls because I hate when she brings him up and it's something I refuse to hear on FOOTBALL SUNDAY. I recommended this site to her but for some reasons she thinks only DATING FAILURES are on here and has no interest. At this point she can use all the help she can get like me but won't come here.
norajane Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Why can't you just tell her that you believe he doesn't want a real relationship with her, which is why he doesn't actually want to go out with her?
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 Why can't you just tell her that you believe he doesn't want a real relationship with her, which is why he doesn't actually want to go out with her? Because she already asked-"am I ugly ir something? I don't want to tell her the triuth and say you are not his type
Krytellan Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Geez DA, just tell her you don't know... you're not him. It's not rocket science.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 Geez DA, just tell her you don't know... you're not him. It's not rocket science. What made me mad is she thought by having sex with him would make him want to take outdoors. He goes outdoors with his male friends but not her
Phoebe Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Tell her what you think is going on. Even if it's uncomfortable for you, you're supposed to be her friend.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 You sound like a great friend. Look I'm not going to listen to someone complain about their love life on FOOTBALL SUNDAY. Any other day yes, Today I want to sit in my underwear with some nachos and watch football until 1am and go to sleep happy
melodymatters Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Wow, learn something new everyday ! Didn't realize some people were reservered for "indoors" and some for "outdoors" !!!!! PS. DA both nora and krytellan gave you good advice !
Lizzie60 Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Wow, learn something new everyday ! Didn't realize some people were reservered for "indoors" and some for "outdoors" !!!!! PS. DA both nora and krytellan gave you good advice ! ...
jcster Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 You can't let some people outdoors, because they'll run in traffic and get hit by a car. You must also make sure that they are spayed and neutered before letting them roam - otherwise, it's better to keep them as an indoor friend.
a4a Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 You can't let some people outdoors, because they'll run in traffic and get hit by a car. You must also make sure that they are spayed and neutered before letting them roam - otherwise, it's better to keep them as an indoor friend. correct!!!! But you can take them outdoors in a fenced area or on a leash. If you keep them indoors only - well they tend to gain weight and can become anti- social. Perhaps a rousing game of swat the feather on the end of the stick will perk this friend up....... or a belly rub followed by some basic obedience training indoors to stimulate her mind. and I am sorry DA in your panties eating nachos........ visual is too much to handle.... crumbs and drippy orange cheese in your belly button.... Tell the friend the guy is a douche bag.
bones Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 Buy her the book, "He's just not that into you" and tell her to read it on Sunday. It would be nice if you could find another book about boosting her self esteem. Then set aside a one-hour coffee date with her mid-week. Ask her pointed questions about what the book had to say. Anytime she asks you a question, reply-- I'm not sure I have the best advice, what did the book say? Don't make the cheese too hot in case you drop some below the equator by accident.
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