chill chic Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 This pretty much psycho guy I used to know was obsessed with me a few years ago. I ended up having to change my cell phone number a couple of times just so he couldn't find out what it was. He even went to the lengths of calling my home number and left crewd messages on the answering machine, that of course my parents heard. I ended up going to the police then, and apparently the cops called him and the phone calls mostly stopped, and have stopped for 2 years. Now, somehow I believe he got ahold of my cell phone number again, and I don't want to change my number again, because it would be a hassle letting all my friends know that I changed my number ONCE again. This dude really freaks me out, and I'm freaking out right now, is there anything I can do in regards to my cell phone? Has anyone ever had any experience with this, if so, please tell me what you did or what happened. I'm almost about to cry because it's made me upset in the past, and I don't want those haunting feelings coming back now Please help.
Lizzie60 Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 What I did with a guy like that, about 4 years ago... I said I would report him to the police.. end of story.. never heard back from him.
Trialbyfire Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 I would call the cops again and refer back to your original case number. Also, you can get call block. Call your cell and landline phone providers.
Author chill chic Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 the only thing is, he calls from different land lines, so I never know if he's calling or not
Trialbyfire Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Retain all the numbers and do reverse lookups, if they are land lines. You will see a pattern. On your cell phone, don't you program in the people you know? I always screen my calls on my cell phone. If it isn't someone I have programmed in, I won't pick up the call.
Author chill chic Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 Retain all the numbers and do reverse lookups, if they are land lines. You will see a pattern. On your cell phone, don't you program in the people you know? I always screen my calls on my cell phone. If it isn't someone I have programmed in, I won't pick up the call. yah he used to do this, where he'd call from someone elses landline and if I missed the call, I'd call back and it would be some older person saying they didn't call anyone, like he told them what to say and everything, it was a mess. I will write down all the numbers that he's supposedly called from. I do program my friends phone numbers, but if it's not a number I'm familiar with, I won't usually pick it up or I wait to see if he leaves a message. hopefully he won't start leaving obscene messages on my voicemail. and there is NO way that he can get any of my numbers from my phone right? like hack into it?? Uhh..I just REALLY stress out about this, and I don't want to stress about this anymore, I thought it was over with, but it's looking like it's not.
whichwayisup Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Now, somehow I believe he got ahold of my cell phone number again, and I don't want to change my number again, because it would be a hassle letting all my friends know that I changed my number ONCE again. This They are your friends, I'm sure they'll understand...And who cares if it's a hassle for you or to them that you've changed your cell number. Your safety comes first!!! dude really freaks me out, and I'm freaking out right now, is there anything I can do in regards to my cell phone? Has anyone ever had any experience with this, if so, please tell me what you did or what happened. I'm almost about to cry because it's made me upset in the past, and I don't want those haunting feelings coming back now Please help. I'd like to know HOW this guy is getting your cellphone number. Does he know anybody that you're friends with? Just weird... If it continues, call the police again.
Author chill chic Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 and that's just it, he knows someone I used to know, and just recently came across that person, but I didn't give him my cell number and I'm not sure if he was the one that got my number somehow and gave it to this pyscho, but that's I believe he got it in the first place. UHHHH I just can't escape. The thing is, I guess I won't change my number just yet, because in essence, he can always get my number somehow, whether if he has to pay a site to get it or he has people that knows how he can get it, even if I do change it. It's just something that makes me uneasy, and especially if and when I have a bf, and this guy calls out of the blue, it's going to weird me out again and I don't want that happening, I don't want him in my life EVER. do alot of people deal with these types of situations?? I just want to know that I'm not the only one
Krytellan Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 First of all, it sounds like you're not even sure if it's him? Maybe it's a coincidence.
Author chill chic Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 First of all, it sounds like you're not even sure if it's him? Maybe it's a coincidence. true, but I looked up the number to see the location, and it's the exact same location (area) that he was calling from before.
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