ex acting crazy!

[alexa137]

i dont know what other way to put it hes just acting psycho or something! ok i am to a little but here goes: he moved out end of july i was devastated first week or so we still talked or chatted online everyfew days bu it hurt too much so i tried the NC worked for 2 days then he was bugging out! we have never stopped having sex this whole time but lately he has been acting crazy one day he wont talk to me we will argue about stupid stuff he keeps asking me who am i with, who was here, who am i dating etc...i'm not doing anything bcause i cant get over him! i know still having sex with him is wrong but its an obsession for both of us--we love each other but cant get along too well-we were together for 1 1/2 years

and then the other day he tells me i cant call him or text him anymore after we argued--then i tell him dont worry im done with you and all your lies! he caught me yesterday riding by his house and he called( didnt answer) but found out today he thought i was spying on him( well i do sometimes) i mean do i have to go around town to get somewhere? am i not allowed on that street? so i denied it of course--he doesnt want me checking up on him--i just dont want him out with anyone else and i told him that if he is with another girl then leave me alone! then today we argued and i did the wrong thing by crying and pouring my heart out to him that i cant begin to try to see other guys--a guy at the mall tried to get with me,i got his # but i wont call bcause all i do is think of my ex--even thinking about kissing a guy i think i would cry doing it! i would think of my love--and i told him that-he got mad and keeps accussing me things,he doesnt want me to date any of his friends or family! and i dont know what the hell he is doing!? he says nothing--we still meet up every 3-4 days for sex only but i cant do that much longer--everytime i tell him it has to stop unless it is more than just sex i dont much a reaction--i told him that i wont get over him until the day i see another girl in his car or with him then he wont have to worry about me anymore--i think this relationship so much to deal with--i cry everyday for him wishing it would go back to the way it was--i miss all the times we had together--he admits to missing it too and wanting to come see me but lately its only for sex--i want to ask him if it will ever be like it used to me but i am so scared of the answer--bcause i think hes not sure

everything is so confusing--when i try to leave him alone i just cant only for maybe a day or two and hes the same way--its like attraction that i cant explain

[popey]

if you can't get along enough to be together, then it is over. sounds to me like it should be. this scenario you are describing couldn't be further from healthy or wise. If you are not doing so, I suggest that you start up on an internet dating site or something. Indulge in the flirtations of someone else, and go on some dates. And cut off all contact for awhile (not just a couple of days either) with the EX. You need to move on. You are an emotional slave of your own doing.