tbonvillain Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 I have been dating a much younger man for about 7 months. We have a 12 year difference. I am 37 and he is 25. On thursday he told me that he was freaking out and wanted to break up. I was crushed. I tried to stay away but it was hard. He told me that he was the happiest he has been in years and then he freaks??? We talked on Fri and Sat and things seemed fine. We agreeed to take a break but not see other people. We would see each other a couple times a week for a bit but not every day like we had.I guess that made me feel better. So what to do I do now?? Do I not call him and let him call me?? Do I play hard to get?? Or do I call once in a while?? I dont want to end up the dumb girl in this situatuon and get played!! Has anyone else taken a break like this before and how did it turn out?Please give me your advice!!!
birdie Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 let him call you and take it slowly as he suggested. he is 25 so he's probably never had a serious relationship before and he got a little scared. that's completely normal and he has been honest with you, you should respect that 100%. if you keep meeting up couple of times a week that's, that's not really a 'break'. just tell him you let him do the driving for a while. nothing wrong with that
Author tbonvillain Posted September 12, 2007 Author Posted September 12, 2007 Should I text him and ask him to go on a walk or just wait for him???
birdie Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 that might be a bit too specific question to ask here. it's hard to tell what your relationship is like exactly
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