lilablue Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 I dont know if this is a break-up or not. I have been seeing this guy since last summer. We met on the job. I recently moved out of the area for another job. I have made the effort to continue to see him by visiting. The last visit was great. I told him that I would have some free time off from work to see him again. He said that sounded great. I gave him my info of where I would be staying and the dates. He emailed me saying that he had to work that weekend. I became frustrated but took it in stride. He later requested some nude photos of me which I gladly sent. However, he started wanting some shots of me with my face on them. I thought that was weird since he has never requested that before. I became suspicious and thought maybe he gave one of his buddies his email. I guess I insulted him by requesting that he answer some questions that only he would know. He answer one and stated what was wrong with me. I told him to call me. He said goodbye. I responded back with goodbye then. The next day, he said lets forget about what happened yesterday. He then asked me when I was coming into town. I gave him the dates again. I didnt hear from all week. So, I sent him an email saying are we still cool? HE HAS NOT REPLIED TO ME??? what gives. My friend says that its not over and i should not panic.
birdie Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 well he doesn't sound particularly nice, maybe it's good if the two of you are not in touch again? I can't tell what's going on but it doesn't sound like you particularly like him either. why the mistrust?
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 The guy in question is married. I guess that part was left out of this post, in order to get an answer more in line with what she wants to hear.
Lishy Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 No he wont contact you again Unless he wants naked pics!
Author lilablue Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 Well, will he contact me again for anything else. Maybe he has found other extracurricular activities. I guess I will find a SINGLE GUY. No regrets.
Mustang Sally Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Lilablue - Judging by your other recent LS posts, I'm thinking this (lack of) interaction with this married guy is really tearing you up. I can understand that on the basis of you having more feelings for him than you maybe alluded to in your posts (or even admitted to yourself!). But I think your stress (that seems evident in the number of threads you have going on this particular situation) over this should be telling you that YOU need to cut this guy loose, no matter whether he contacts you again or not. YOU need to initiate NO CONTACT and take back some emotional control over your situation. Let him go. There are plenty of great SINGLE fish in the sea. Go find one after you have had a bit of grieving over this "break up." Chin up, girl. Life goes on. You have much good ahead of you.
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