danny1 Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Ive was dating this girl for about 3 months and we really grew fond of each other. We were spending just about everyday with each other and it felt so great. It was my 1rst serious relationship in some time and I really enjoyed it. Anyway, about a week and a half ago she told me that after her divorce she, for a period of time fell in love with a woman. She said she is not gay and that is not a lifestle she wanted to lead, but it did happen. My initial reaction was that of surprise and visibly disturbed. I did not yell or scream, I was just surprised. I actually didnt say much at all. After talking it out and taking it in, I decided that it did not bother me if it didnt bother her and I aplogized for making her feel uneasy about the conversation. I thought everything was fine but since then there has been an awkwardness that was not there before she told me. Some days were normal, others were very uncomfortable. I feel like I had moved on and she has not. We broke up today because of it(at least Im pretty sure thats what its over). She says shes heartbroken that we cant see each other anymore but something just doesnt seem right. This really sucks because I fell in love with her and now its over. Why does this stuff happen?? Please help
birdie Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 because it wasn't a serious relationship. 3 months is not enough to get to know someone, it's just enough to decide if you want to keep getting into their pants. the awkwardness was there because the two of you weren't sufficiently close enough to deal with it
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