mark j Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 hi obviously new here just happened to run across this form i recently found out my wife is planning on leaving and has been for long time ,, as she said pull a ed on me ed was the one she left when she got with me and she must of just up and left with out saying any thing to him after 11 years it sounded like ,, funny thing is i just seen she was only divorced from her first husband in 1999 , i thought it was much longer than that , from what i hear is she has been saying for a few years that's she is going to leave and that's strange from we have only been married for 4 years now and we have never had a fight or argument yet , she acts the same as before but she dont know I know what she has been saying to her kids (grown kids ) then i hear she's planning on taking my house and what ever or 1/2 as she said and i can just pay her off now like i said she dont know i have heard all this with my own ears and it sounded like she told her mom ( that might be why i get cold shoulder around this small town ) so now I'm stuck as I'm not sure what to do as she told her daughter's its the money and paying off her bill first and she will be clear in may of 2008 i mean she dont pay bills for the house at all she only had to buy food ,, so I'm stuck on knowing whats she is planning ,and not knowing what to do about this , the only thing i can figure out is a few years back she was in charge if the money but with about 5k a month going in from me i found that my bills was just adding up and house bills was all past due so i took my check book back and did my own bills as i pay all the house stuff so I'm probably rambling here i just dont know what to think or do should i lock here out ? and have her leave on my terms or what problem is i do love her and always have
whichwayisup Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Talk to a lawyer!! You may love her, but she isn't worthy of YOUR love. She can't stay faithful let alone stay married - To anyone.
Author mark j Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 boy the more i think of this I'm starting to get mad , she is planning on moving in with her daughter ( who's getting a divorce also ) but her telling her kids she is going to get boy toys , just makes me mad , as the way she laughs about it , then buy a trailer and be trailer trash ( as she said ) arg what should i do any advice out there
Author mark j Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 I dont think she has been messing around
Chrome Barracuda Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Dude are you F-ing stupid, she's crazy. Her past history is a future indicator of future actions. And right now, all the things you laid out is pretty simple, she's crazy! Leave her before she leaves you! How can any woman say that to a man who loves them dearly: I'm gonna leave you and F other men?!? Then you know what, kick her ass out! and make sure she doesnt leave with a damn dime of your money! 4 years??? and now this!!!??? If you dont have any children I suggest you run far away and annull the marriage before hand. She sounds schitzo to me. Trust me you'll be doing yourself a big favor for it.
Woggle Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 File for divorce right now and get her out of your life as soon as possible. Wash your hands clean of her.
justfine Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Definitely see an attorney and ask for the best way to protect your assets. Make sure she has no access to your money. Be glad you don't have any kids with her.
Author mark j Posted September 23, 2007 Author Posted September 23, 2007 well today's the day there packing her up as we speak and taking loads out , to date last wednesday i left a note saying get boxes she wrote she will move out when she is good and ready and if i continue to harass her when will put a domestic abuse restraining order on me and have the cops tell me what that means she was at work when i read that so i had no choice but to call the sheriff my self to document this threat he came out and read the note then he called her at work and asked her if she had a place to stay that night ( boy she was pissed ) she thought he meant for her to move out that day the cop told me the note was a threat and that's why he called her but shes moving shes pissed from the fact that i am not all emotional about this , but i know i cant be i will let that out later then be done with it
Gunny376 Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 well today's the day there packing her up as we speak and taking loads out , to date last wednesday i left a note saying get boxes she wrote she will move out when she is good and ready and if i continue to harass her when will put a domestic abuse restraining order on me and have the cops tell me what that means she was at work when i read that so i had no choice but to call the sheriff my self to document this threat he came out and read the note then he called her at work and asked her if she had a place to stay that night ( boy she was pissed ) she thought he meant for her to move out that day the cop told me the note was a threat and that's why he called her but shes moving shes pissed from the fact that i am not all emotional about this , but i know i cant be i will let that out later then be done with it :lmao: Good job! :lmao:
Chrome Barracuda Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 well today's the day there packing her up as we speak and taking loads out , to date last wednesday i left a note saying get boxes she wrote she will move out when she is good and ready and if i continue to harass her when will put a domestic abuse restraining order on me and have the cops tell me what that means she was at work when i read that so i had no choice but to call the sheriff my self to document this threat he came out and read the note then he called her at work and asked her if she had a place to stay that night ( boy she was pissed ) she thought he meant for her to move out that day the cop told me the note was a threat and that's why he called her but shes moving shes pissed from the fact that i am not all emotional about this , but i know i cant be i will let that out later then be done with it ROFLMAO!!!! Wow you called the sheriff and had her evicted!!! Wow I didnt know you could do that? usually women use the law to their advantage even though they file false reports sometimes just like she claimed you would do. I bet you she didnt see that one coming. And this is what alot of men and women need to do with their sposes when they pull **** like she did!!! I wish everyone will man the hell up, just like gunny said.
Melovator Posted September 23, 2007 Posted September 23, 2007 That's beautiful- she was so stupid she wrote you a note threatening you? Then calling the Sheriff- kick ass! Laws like that exist to protect victims of abuse; they should not to be used as a weapon in the divorce war.
marsbars Posted October 2, 2007 Posted October 2, 2007 Kudos to you. A good judge will see through those kind of threats also. Mine did. Told my wife to take a flying leap off a bridge. I agree, lawyer up and don't be cheap. My W got a flat fee lawyer and is getting killed. Mine is high priced, not that I can afford her, but she gutted hers in 5 minutes.
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