Guest Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 Wow I really really want a girlfriend so bad, but no girls seem attracted to me. I'm chubby, but 5'7 so it looks alright I guess, I'm 16 now by the way. I am pretty popular at school, and all the girls me and my friends hang out with are cool, but all like other people. What am I to do? Do girls look at me and get turned off that I'm kinda fat? I really want to just have a cute girl that I can talk to and cuddle with, but it seems like I will never get the cute ones I like. All my friends and some girls say I'm cute, but it seems like only they think so. So what can I do, I have been trying to lose weight, but that's not really as much of an issue. How can I meet a bunch of girls in my high school that are cool, and GF material? Thank You.
Yosef Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 My friend, I used to be the same way. Nobody in my school, of about 1300 students, seems to catch my attention. I ended up finding someone I liked from a totally different school! I would recommend, if you're just trying to find a girlfriend, try being more outgoing and participate in out-side-of-school activities like a youth group, club, tutoring session, volunteer groups, just simple group activities you could meet new people in. My friend actually found his first and, I think best, girlfriend at a depression clinic, They lived half an hour from each other and totally different school districts but still found love for each other. Sometimes you just need to venture outside the box.
justfine Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 If you're chubby and you really want a girlfriend, work out and lose weight. I guarantee girls will notice. Keep carbs to minimum and run everyday on your schools track and lift weights. Looking good will give you confidence and girls love fit guys with confidence.
Recommended Posts