niceandslow Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 So I have brought up to my guy that we don't spend enough time together. We only spend 2 or 3 nights together, and we never go out as a couple and do things. It is always sitting in watching a movie or something like that. Most of the time it is late at night when he gets off of work. Everything is basically on his terms. Well his response was that he is busy. He works, goes to school, and has a daughter to take care of. I am his last priority. He asked me the other night if anything was bothering me, and I told him again that I feel like our time is limited and I want to do more stuff. Same response he is busy. I think what bothers me the most is that since we have started seeing each other he has always brought up that we should do this and we should do that. However, most of the plans have not come through. It is starting to feel like a bunch of false, empty promises. Yeah, I know he is busy. I just feel that if he likes me and cares for me as much as he says he does then he would find the time to spend with me. I really don't know what to say to him anymore for him to understand where I am coming from. Any ideas?
Lishy Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 Can I ask,how long have you been together? Has it always been like this?
Author niceandslow Posted September 8, 2007 Author Posted September 8, 2007 We've only been dating for 3 months. And no, it hasn't always been like this. We did more stuff earlier on.
Lishy Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 Do you know why it changed? Do you think you was happy to sdit in and then it became habit? I think he is bored with the nights in too and so he doesnt see the point in making an effort as all he will be doing is sitting in watching a movie. My advice is not to say anything BUT dont see him unless you have a date to go out. Men need showing not telling and if you make more effort to go out then he will too. 3 months is far too early to be so comfortable. Its the end of the honeymoon period so you need to step it up a bit to keep it spicy!
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