irishgirly Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Recently broke up with this guy i was on/off with (he lives two hours away). His reason for breaking up was because we keep "going around in circles", however he also mentioned he is in fact moving here to my city in a few weeks and thats what cuts me up the most. Last week was the longest and darkest week I ever got through and Im ashamed to say I was very upset and let him show it, i cried, texted, begged him to give me a reason and to try us again especially as hes actually moving here and we'll be closer together but he declined. Why cant he see that one more try could lead to it potentially working out? Anyhow we havent been in contact since Saturday (more texting that day but by then I was angry and in the end he said he wasn't going to dignify me with any more replies...nice). So I guess we probably wont be able to remain friends even though we originally wanted to.. So far no contact since then but I cant help wondering if/when he will contact again, especially if he moves here, and if so, what will I do? I dont know if I'd get back with him because he put me through so much pain recently, but we just seem to fit.. Just wondering what others think, sorry its so long!
niceguy27 Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Sorry to hear this. That would be hard. Take it one step at a time. Go a few days with NC and see if he responds. Then maybe follow up with a test text seeing how things are going. Then, based on that, determine if you need to go full NC or partial. That is what I am doing. Its the worst feeling in the world dealing with something like this, especially when you feel like youve been abandonded like that. Hang in there! And read some posts on here. It has helped me tremendously.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 I wouldn't even follow up with a text. He doesn't deserve it just yet. Give him a chance to move, and get settled. Get busy yourself, finding interesting things to do without him! Either he just needs some time and he will come back, or he really is a jerk and you wouldn't want to be with a jerk, right?
Curious139 Posted September 7, 2007 Posted September 7, 2007 Go NC and if he does contact you, act cool. Give him the impression that your life is fine and you are in control of it. If he has any genuine feelings for you he will followup but be careful.........
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