beachlover Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 I have known this guy for almost a year, and we are both recently single (me 9 months ago and him 2 months ago) and started "dating" about a month ago. We go out to bars together and spend the night at each others houses frequently. He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship this soon but assures me that I am the only girl he has done anything with since he broke up with his ex. He says that if we are going to be in a relationship he wants to know and wants me to know that he is there 100% and he doesn't know that he is completely over his ex yet. Up until last week it was just the two of us that hung out, I never met his friends and he never met mine and he didn't want to meet them. Last weekend he invited me over to his best friends house so I could meet him then the 3 of us went out bar hopping and we have plans to go out with my best friend tomorrow night. When we were with his friend he was being almost protective of me at the bars, when guys would start looking at me he would put his arm around me and make it obvious I was there with him, and when he got up to go get more drinks his friend told me that he hasn't seen him this happy in a long time and that he hasn't stopped talking about me. I am not sure what to think, at first I thought that I was just going to be his rebound girl. But now that I am meeting his friends and hearing what he has been saying I am starting to think that I am more than a rebound to him. What do you think?
birdie Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 I think that he is a little scared and he just wants to take things slowly. That's definitely a good sign. It sounds like your relationship is developing and moving on at a nice pace, don't worry about it, just relax and enjoy it. Good luck!
VIP Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 I think it's better not to assume anything, let him prove to you with his actions, that he is serious about you.
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