newlywed Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Hello everyone! I noticed that I'm impatient and always think about negative things towards my partner. Every time he hold his cellphone bad thoughts about other woman come rushing into my head. The same thing happens whenever he's up til midnight even though he's working. But my intuition seldom fails. Is it true that when you think about this stuff they're true?
CAT100 Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Hi, can you give some more details? Like, has he got any history of being unfaithful to you? Have you ever found out that hes definitley been lying about his whereabouts etc? What exactly did he do to start off your suspicious feelings? Apart from talking on the phone & working late? I think a high pecentage of people that are suspicious of their spouse find out their fears were justified. However not all! So you may be totally barking up the wrong tree so to speak! Unless of course he has a track record or some other strong reason for you to doubt him, or you get actual proof
vivi Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 if you get too crazy you can make them true. does he have a track record of infidelity? is he where he says he is when he says he will be there? are there gaps in his explanations or the plans he tells you? have his habits changed? is he going to the gym suddenly? the tipoffs are when his patterns change or when stories don't add up. otherwise, you are torturing yourself needlessly.
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