chrismsdm Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 I recently broke up with my boyfriend for the 2nd time in less than a year. He goes back to his ex gf and then comes back to me saying how much he messed up and wants it to work. The last time he came back things were different for me, I love him but I needed some space so I told him to leave. He left and went back to his ex gf again and he said he loves her. I accepted that then the other morning he showed up and wanted to know why I cheated on him while we were together. I told him I never cheated on him, that while we were apart I had every right to talk and date who I wanted to and that it was none of his business, even though I did not talk to anyone or date anyone. My thing is if he loves her so much why is he worried about me and why won't he leave me alone? He says he doesn't love me but his actions and words say differently. I miss him alot but I am afraid to give him another chance. What do I do?
Enema Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Don't fool yourself into thinking he's in love with you but having a hard time letting go of his ex. He's had you once, so he considers you his property and doesn't want anyone else to play with his toys. There's no love there, just a manipulative, jealous, untrustworthy jerk. Sorry if I'm a little vague.
bartles Posted September 12, 2007 Posted September 12, 2007 Just because he is worried about who is you are seeing doesn't mean he loves you. Save yourself the heartache and let things go NOW. He wants to have you and her and you don't deserve that. Tell him to call you when he is ready to stop playing games.
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