JackJack Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 i believe in order to defend my friend it would have to be stfup! OOP's
MrsHellnoFire Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 I like all women: fake, real or anywhere in between. I only need 3 physical qualities to be fulfilled with women. Not Fat, Not Ugly, Not hairy. </p> Wow. I think you are asking for too much there
MrsHellnoFire Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 I apologize if I offended anyone. I personally see nothing wrong with dying your hair or wearing makeup. I like to change my hair color once in a while and I have a huge eyeshadow collection. What I meant is it's seems men have unrealistic expectations for what women should look like. But you see fake boobs as wrong though, huh?I think you should worry less about someone else's chest and focus on why you pick the wrong men!
Author Capricorn Posted September 8, 2007 Author Posted September 8, 2007 I personally don't care if other woman are so insecure that they have to get fake body parts to feel like a woman!!! I don't care what anyone says, women who get plastic surgery do it to impress men! You can say oh I did it to feel better about myself but yeah after you get your fake boobs or your lips injected why do you feel better,cause you'll look more like a porn star wanna be and men will give you more attention. Any way my whole point is not what the women do but the fact that men seem to like fake rather than natural looking women!
Woggle Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 Fake boobs and lip injections don't appeal to me but I don't think it is fair to make a character judgement based on them. Like I said before fakeness has nothind to do with a woman's appearenc. My wife wears a lot of makeup, has very long nails that are 100% real that are a different color or combination of colors every week and has a rather interesting fashion sense but she is one of the realest and most sincere people I have met. She has such a pure heart.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 after you get your fake boobs or your lips injected why do you feel better,cause you'll look more like a porn star wanna be and men will give you more attention. All I can think of here is Jenna Jameson and the horrible mess she has made of her face and body through plastic surgery. She's getting attention alright, but not the sort she wants to have I'm sure. Sure, a lip plumped and fried hair blonde with a leathertan can get a lot of attention, but is it really the sort of attention you want for yourself? I'm not sure if I would want to be in the "spank bank only" category. Its nice to be noticed and considered hot, and have a lot of guys pay attention to you, but I'd rather have a guy pay attention to me for other reasons, and be happy with me without me having to butcher my natural looks in order to do so.
Woggle Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 All I can think of here is Jenna Jameson and the horrible mess she has made of her face and body through plastic surgery. She's getting attention alright, but not the sort she wants to have I'm sure. Sure, a lip plumped and fried hair blonde with a leathertan can get a lot of attention, but is it really the sort of attention you want for yourself? I'm not sure if I would want to be in the "spank bank only" category. Its nice to be noticed and considered hot, and have a lot of guys pay attention to you, but I'd rather have a guy pay attention to me for other reasons, and be happy with me without me having to butcher my natural looks in order to do so. OMG what she do to herself? She used to actually be pretty hot.
lino Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 Just wondering if you other ladies notice this. Men want fake looking/acting woman. If you don't have fake boobs, 10 pounds of makeup on, bleached fried hair,overly cooked fake tan skin and act brainless 90% of men don't want you!!! I don't find that stuff attractive. I don't mind fake boobs but the rest is yuck. I'm not attracted to girls who wear too much make up, don't really care for bleached hair and I don't like stupid girls with those disgusting orange looking fake tans either.
Woggle Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 Those orange tans are disgusting. Some of them look like aliens.
MrsHellnoFire Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 I personally don't care if other woman are so insecure that they have to get fake body parts to feel like a woman!!! I don't care what anyone says, women who get plastic surgery do it to impress men! You can say oh I did it to feel better about myself but yeah after you get your fake boobs or your lips injected why do you feel better,cause you'll look more like a porn star wanna be and men will give you more attention. Any way my whole point is not what the women do but the fact that men seem to like fake rather than natural looking women! You don't sound secure either and you seem to have a hatred for women.I don't think men look for a FAKE woman.. they just look for an attractive one, whether natural or fake.
Trimmer Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 I personally don't care if other woman are so insecure that they have to get fake body parts to feel like a woman!!! I don't care what anyone says, women who get plastic surgery do it to impress men! You can say oh I did it to feel better about myself but yeah after you get your fake boobs or your lips injected why do you feel better,cause you'll look more like a porn star wanna be and men will give you more attention. Any way my whole point is not what the women do but the fact that men seem to like fake rather than natural looking women! And I maintain that this observation that the men you have around you are this way does not make it a fact across the population of men, and not even the "90%" you stated in your OP. Do you consider, even for a moment, that you do not have a sufficiently broad, accurate, unbiased view of "all men" to support such a "fact?" Or are you really sure that you've got it right, and this is the way "all men" are? You didn't answer my questions about your age, the kind of place you live in, the kind of place you work in, the kinds of places you have visited and travelled in the world, etc.... These all have an effect on your view of people.
Yamaha Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Men want fake looking/acting woman. If you don't have fake boobs, 10 pounds of makeup on, bleached fried hair,overly cooked fake tan skin and act brainless 90% of men don't want you!!! Guilty. I love a big t*tted, tanned blonde. I disagree that 90% of men want a gal with no arms or legs.
outrageousxcgirl Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 90% of guys are toolbags so you don't have to worry about those ones. If your comfortable with yourself you don't have to worry about those men. I don't fill out an A, I don't wear tons of makeup, I certaintely would NEVER fake tan because it's horrendously unhealthy for you, and I am FAR from stupid. Girls act clumsy for certain guys, it's gonna blow up in there faces one day because you can't act forever. I've tried it, it was fun for about 3 days until rumor was I just a dumb blonde. p.s. I think brunettes are much prettier, more mysterious looking, and sexier. Guys who like big boobs, don't worry about them either, tell them go watch some busty blonde on porn if you wanna see that gross fat bobbly around. UGH GROSS. Tell the guy your interested in Makeup enhances your gorgeous features so you don't need to wear alot of it because your just damn straight sexy. Fake tans, throw up in your mouth a little, tell the guy your interested in, you ACTUALLY like going outdoors and being active you don't need to FAKE it. Girl be who you WANT to be, being like everyone else IS DUMB. hope this helped.. this was my morning rant =]
Trialbyfire Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Just wondering if you other ladies notice this. Men want fake looking/acting woman. If you don't have fake boobs, 10 pounds of makeup on, bleached fried hair,overly cooked fake tan skin and act brainless 90% of men don't want you!!! I've never done any of these but have no difficulty with being asked out. I don't need to appeal to the masses...only to the men that matter.
oppath Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 You are meeting some weird men. I like petite bodies, A-B cup boobs, and tan? Yes, I like tans, and I don't mind if they are from a salon in the winter, but I what I look for is a body type and attitude that project "I'm active and can keep up with you on occasion." There is nothing fake in that. Girls caked in makeup, wearing clothes to highlight their bodies, and who appear high-maintenance make me run in the other direction.
lindya Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 p.s. I think brunettes are much prettier, more mysterious looking, and sexier. Guys who like big boobs, don't worry about them either, tell them go watch some busty blonde on porn if you wanna see that gross fat bobbly around. UGH GROSS. So it's not enough to say "I like being brunette. I like the statement I feel it makes about me." Instead, you have to make derogatory comments about women who have a different look to yours. Then you add... Girl be who you WANT to be..." So essentially you're saying "..be who you want to be...as long as what you want to be isn't blonde with big boobs. Eeew how gross!" Might that not be a little fake...or just plain inconsistent?
justfine Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Personally, I prefer petite women with toned bodies and small boobs, the athletic build. I've dated a few women with big boobs, but, felt uncomfortable being with them in public. Too many people would just stare at their boobs, and, big boobs often make women look trashy. Just my opinion.
uniqueone Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Too many people would just stare at their boobs, and, big boobs often make women look trashy. And that's a really sad statement about our society too. Think of the blonde, large chested woman who is smart and classy but is looked upon as "trashy" or "dumb" just because she has big boobs. Her anatomy determines what people think of her. Not only that, a woman's sexual characteristics are seen as "trashy" when they are in abundance. Why should the size of them determine whether or not she's trashy? This is all based upon pornography and pornography is created by men. The type of men who view noticeable sexual characteristic in women as indicative of their "looseness". This is why we've come to associate large boobs with trashyness.
justfine Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 [quote=uniqueone;1312679 This is all based upon pornography and pornography is created by men. The type of men who view noticeable sexual characteristic in women as indicative of their "looseness". This is why we've come to associate large boobs with trashyness. One of the main reasons why women with big boobs are perceived as "trashy" is because too many get boob implants for the sole purpose of getting sexual attention. Then these big breasted women complain about men staring at their chests. Personally, I think they rather enjoy the attention, but, only pretend to feel violated. They are getting the exact attention they were hoping for when they first stepped into their surgeon's office.
uniqueone Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 One of the main reasons why women with big boobs are perceived as "trashy" is because too many get boob implants for the sole purpose of getting sexual attention. Then these big breasted women complain about men staring at their chests. Personally, I think they rather enjoy the attention, but, only pretend to feel violated. They are getting the exact attention they were hoping for when they first stepped into their surgeon's office. I think we're talking chicken vs. egg here. Which came first? Boob implants or porn? A lot of women realize that if you can't beat 'em, join 'em. They'd see the advantages that large chested women would get. While it's true that large boobs made them considered as trashy and seen as sex objects, it also gained them favors and priviledges. It DIDN'T gain them being taken seriously, however--but they weren't taken seriously before anyway. They were ignored. So some women said to themselves...since I'm not getting anywhere in the usual ways (because there are still many reasons why women don't get ahead), then I'll get somewhere with my body. It's not that they WANT to feel like an object or have men staring at their chests. It's a feeling of power. It's their way of getting somewhere when they were ignored sitting there flat-chested before. Women don't WANT to do that....just like women don't want to be strippers either. It's power. If women were able to get ahead more easily by other means, you'd probably be seeing less of that.
KenzieAbsolutely Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 One of the main reasons why women with big boobs are perceived as "trashy" is because too many get boob implants for the sole purpose of getting sexual attention. Then these big breasted women complain about men staring at their chests. Personally, I think they rather enjoy the attention, but, only pretend to feel violated. They are getting the exact attention they were hoping for when they first stepped into their surgeon's office. what about women who are naturally big-chested, and would like to walk down the street without being ogled and hollered at? are they still trashy? or the women who get implants because THEY want them, and not for anyone else's benefit? i hate to be the one to say it, but not everything is done for someone else's reaction, and that's not trashy.
IpAncA Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 Just wondering if you other ladies notice this. Men want fake looking/acting woman. If you don't have fake boobs, 10 pounds of makeup on, bleached fried hair,overly cooked fake tan skin and act brainless 90% of men don't want you!!! This isn't news to me. Although I wouldn't say 90%. For example. 2 weeks ago I attended a meeting. Well this girl with that decription and a couple of others showed up to talk about something and I swear to you on the grave that those guys lite up. They were making those funny side comments and I couldn't help but laugh and shake my head. Speaking for myself I'm 100% real. I don't wear pounds of make-up (not the idea), have an orange fake tan, have blond hair, watermelon boobs, nor am I brainless. And I won't lie but if I stood next to those girls that day, I wouldn't get the attention they did. Not saying I want that but people like that do get noticed more IMO.
outrageousxcgirl Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 lindya I'm sorry if I seemed inconsistant. There's nothing wrong with any busty blonde it was a sarcastic remark to any guy who requested that.. I wasn't very clear it was sarcasm but I'm extremely sorry if I offended you in anyway.
lindya Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 lindya I'm sorry if I seemed inconsistant. There's nothing wrong with any busty blonde it was a sarcastic remark to any guy who requested that.. I wasn't very clear it was sarcasm but I'm extremely sorry if I offended you in anyway. I'm sorry too. I was just in a foul mood when I wrote that. And I'm not personally offended by the blonde/big boobs thing. I'm more offended by the fact that I don't have big boobs, to be honest.
LakesideDream Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Lindya, don't sweat the size thing! There are plenty of men out there who aren't hung up on breast size. In my life (pre-marriage, and post divorce) I've dated women with of all "sizes" and do not find any corelation between breast size and intellegence. Personally I have always preferred petite women, probably because I am a big guy. I married a gal who was a size 4, who bounced from 4 to 8 randomly, and I was attracted to her totally, at every "size". I have also dated women with med. and lg. size breasts. While I suppose my "dream gal" (if there is such a thing at 57) would be lean and built for "speed", I would be happy to spend the rest of my life with a good gal who treated me as well as I treated her! Regardless of "size".
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