spoonfull Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 wow, her my space profile is private but there is a pic of them 4 that you can barely see & a blurb about thanking him for loving her so much & how did she ever think she could go on without him. Um..I almost threw up. We haven't had contact & good thing since he's obviously working things out, but geez, come on, why does it gotta say all that?
annabelle75 Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 She's trying too hard to put up a "white picket fence" front. It doesn't mean everyhting is perfect, but it does mean that she wants it to work out.
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Regardless of what is going on, you will want to stop looking at that MySpace profile. It will do you absolutely no good. Its like picking at a scab over and over, keeping yourself from healing.
justice Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Clearly it is a warning to you that things are now working out for her. She wants you to see this and as for the private status of her myspace, that in itself speaks volumes. It's a clear message of "WE" are doing great, you have no place in our lives, see? You are going to need to stop looking at it and torturing yourself, find your inner strength and draw from it, go on and do positive things instead of dwelling in negativity. Best of luck.
CAT100 Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Seems to me that shes gone a bit overboard in her declarations of love to him & wants the whole world to know that they are a united front. What goes on behind closed doors is another matter.. But she is projecting a united image. I agree with the above, that everytime you look at the profile it will just upset & annoy you. Theres no point & it doesnt help you
whichwayisup Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 If you look, be prepared to hurt. Sorry but surfing her myspace or any other site she's on will just hurt you more! Try your best not to look!
herenow Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 I'm sorry, but I don't see why a woman saying that she loves her husband on her own space says anything but how she feels. Why the comments insinuating that things aren't as good as she says or that she is just trying to put up a front? Why is it so hard to believe that a woman can love the man she married and be able to declare it? Bigger question, why do you care? If you are no contact with him, then it would seem that looking at his wife's myspace would only keep you thinking about him.
CAT100 Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 I'm sorry, but I don't see why a woman saying that she loves her husband on her own space says anything but how she feels. Why the comments insinuating that things aren't as good as she says or that she is just trying to put up a front? Why is it so hard to believe that a woman can love the man she married and be able to declare it? Well I assumed that the W knew about the affair? (OP correct me if Im wrong) Which means that she may be a little angry about it? It seems a little unnatural to forgive someone so quickly & then make a big deal on an internet site declaring how much she loves her fantastic husband...?
smoochygirl Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Well I assumed that the W knew about the affair? (OP correct me if Im wrong) Which means that she may be a little angry about it? It seems a little unnatural to forgive someone so quickly & then make a big deal on an internet site declaring how much she loves her fantastic husband...? Hi cat, If i want to get someone jealous through my myspace profile i wouldn't have my profile in private. If she is declaring her love to her spouse it is probably the process of her forgiveness to his infidelity.
ICallsEmAsISeesEm Posted September 7, 2007 Posted September 7, 2007 We haven't had contact & good thing since he's obviously working things out, but geez, come on, why does it gotta say all that?Spoonful, the simple truth is that she was there BEFORE you and she'll be there AFTER you. This isn't a competition. She's his WIFE. She can say whatever she pleases to her own husband on her own MySpace page. If this is part of HER healing process then so be it. Remember, she didn't ask for any of this. It was thrown at her and she's been left to deal with it.
frannie Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 I'm sorry, but I don't see why a woman saying that she loves her husband on her own space says anything but how she feels. Why the comments insinuating that things aren't as good as she says or that she is just trying to put up a front? Why is it so hard to believe that a woman can love the man she married and be able to declare it? She didn't say she loved him. If you read the OP, it says: She thanked him for loving her, and stated that at one point she thought "she could go on without him". Doesn't sound as hunky-dory as all that. But then, why the devil would it be, he's been cheating on her, and you don't get over that in ten minutes flat. Sounds like a lot of 'protesting too much' if not re-writing history ('I didn't really mean what I said when I said I could live without you'). And who thanks a cheater for loving her..? Of course we haven't seen the thing itself, so it's a bit of secondhand speculation.
norajane Posted September 8, 2007 Posted September 8, 2007 She didn't say she loved him. If you read the OP, it says: She thanked him for loving her, and stated that at one point she thought "she could go on without him". Doesn't sound as hunky-dory as all that. But then, why the devil would it be, he's been cheating on her, and you don't get over that in ten minutes flat. Sounds like a lot of 'protesting too much' if not re-writing history ('I didn't really mean what I said when I said I could live without you'). And who thanks a cheater for loving her..? Of course we haven't seen the thing itself, so it's a bit of secondhand speculation. Maybe his W had her OWN affair, so now she's thanking him for still loving her anyway and kicking herself for thinking she could do without him in favor of someone else? For all we know, that could be what's behind whatever it was she said. spoonfull, how long has it been since you've last talked with him?
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