Lostguy33 Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Ok, well, Im a junior in highschool, and i want want to ask this girl out. The problem is I don't know her(Thats why i wanna ask her out, to get to know her and such). I don't have any classes with her nor do I see her ever.. soo, i don't really know how i should start up a conversation with the fact we don't know eachother, ending up with me asking her out. She also HAD a boyfriend last year, I do not know if she broke up with him over the summer or not. Please help! thanks.
Yosef Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Well, to make it easier, where did you first encounter her? This is tough. Are you a normally shy person or are you socially inhibited in your normal life? Do you have a yearbook? If so, you could look up her photo and her name, then kind of go looking around for someone by the name in clubs, classes, etc. See if your friends know of the girl and you could then chain from there to further connections to her. If you don't have a yearbook, you'll just have to rely on hope that you notice her in the hall and take a chance to make conversation with her. Being unable to get a hold of her or even SEE her makes it hard to get to know a person. I can't offer much more advice, but I do hope that others provide you with what you're looking for.
Author Lostguy33 Posted September 5, 2007 Author Posted September 5, 2007 I first encountered her in my alg 3-4 class last year, yes i have a year book. I dont know if she'll recognize me or not since class was a while ago.. and I've always been social, but I don't know her friends. I know lots of people who probably know her b/c I was playing football until I got a season ending injury, and she is a cheerleader.
Yosef Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Oh. You definitely shouldn't be worried to talk to her if you are. Well, you should get a friend to get you two together, if you're comfortable doing so. Try slipping her a note by use of friend. Write her a note, have a friend who encounters her and have the friend give her the message. Explain to her how you never get a chance to talk to her and that you'd like to catch up some time. Now, as of choice for location and timing, I'm leaving it up to you to decide. Some girls prefer to do the locating, but other girls want the guy to be able to locate to prove that he's confident.
Author Lostguy33 Posted September 5, 2007 Author Posted September 5, 2007 Well, we never really talked in Alg 3-4, basically acquaintances. We basically know eachothers names, she may even have forgotten.
Ihatethis84 Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Yosef, I'm sorry but I will have to disagree. Slipping a note will not work. Noone does that anymore, at all. It is also kind of corny. Find out who her friends are, and see if any of your friends know them and such. See where she sits for lunch and make it a point to come into contact with her. Then just start talking.
Author Lostguy33 Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 Any further advice about me not really knowing her, how to make it not weird and awkward coming up to her and starting up a conversation?
Cad Rake Posted September 9, 2007 Posted September 9, 2007 dude get a matchmaker. Asking chicks out in school SUCKS. Ask a friend to ask one of her friends if she'd be at all interested. If so, you can make your move. If not, you can save yourself the embarrassment of crashing and burning in front of the whole school.
outrageousxcgirl Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 my boyfriend asked me out by spelling out "will you go out with me" with golf balls on my driveway because we met by playing golf (I know golf how GAY) the more creative you are. the more impressive. in front of a group can be VERY hott and impressive but can also lead to terrible embarassment if your not totally confident with it! I kinda hoped this helped =]
Cad Rake Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Like I said, get some info as to whether the chick is at all into you beforehand. If you're an uber-dork and you do some grandiose gesture you will be the laughing-stock of the school forever.
Green Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 look I was a dork my whole life but I also managed to pull some numbers and have some sucess with girls back in junior high. The best way to get girls is to not become a stalkerish creep who gets all desperate and hung up on some girl he doesnt even know yet. My advice flirt and jokingly tease every girl you are atracted to. You obviously see this one girl your talking about in the halls or something so just walk up to her out of no where and say something like " some guys at gym said you liked me" then when she says no or whatever say look you dont have to lie lots of girls like me I just wanted to let you know if you want a chance you should come up and talk to me more, just chat with her casualy a few times and then try to get the number u dont even need to ask her out on a date just to hang out, touch her when you talk to her like a playful tap or rub and if you do get to hang out with her try and get a kiss.
Author Lostguy33 Posted September 10, 2007 Author Posted September 10, 2007 Well I'm no dork that's for sure. I was doing football this year till I had some family problems. But, I never got a chance to talk to her like i said previously.
Cad Rake Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 yeah KMT is right. Don't go after ONE girl when you're in school. Just joke and flirt with all of them and the ones who want to screw you will let you know. Don't get all hung up on one chick.
Green Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 Well I'm no dork that's for sure. I was doing football this year till I had some family problems. But, I never got a chance to talk to her like i said previously. It doesnt matter if ur a dork or not just walk up to this girl the next time you see her in the hall or at the bus stop or what ever and try to flirt with her, be casual about it say something like I like nice days or what ever and she'll be like I like them too then just say I like (insert band) and she'll say something like well I like them too or I like fallout boy blah blah blah
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