Jewklar Posted September 4, 2007 Posted September 4, 2007 For those of you who read my other post ull know why im asking this. Well its been a long time since i was in the game and was wondering what i should and can do now to hook up because its been so long since ive tried. I'm a rugby jock in grade 11.
Yamaha Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 Go up to a girl you find attractive and chat her up and see if she is interested. You then ask her to go to a movie or .... It's not rocket science. Just get out there, talk to some girls and let them know you want to hang out.
Author Jewklar Posted September 5, 2007 Author Posted September 5, 2007 lol alright sounds good im always just so worried with ****ing rejection augh its so frusteration i wish i didnt care
wwjd Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 dude, you're in high school. parties are your friends.
Author Jewklar Posted September 5, 2007 Author Posted September 5, 2007 oh **** i forgot lol i havent been to a party in a longggg time and schools just starting up so there'll be lots of new chicks
wwjd Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 yea, parties are great ways to meet people, for friends or otherwise. from a girl's perspective, i ought to tell you that, as cliched as it may be, you really need to just be yourself. it's really easy to tell when a guy is "acting" to make himself look cool or whatever, and that is what usually gets you the: . just go to a party or any other social gathering, pick a girl that strikes your fancy, and go up to her and introduce yourself to her. something like, "hey my name is X. how are you liking (event) so far?" should start you off well. don't come on too strong but don't lose your assertiveness/confidence, either. just be cool without trying to "act" cool, ya know? just chat the girl up and after a while, dismiss yourself--but ask for her number first or give her yours. if nothing happens on your first try, try again. you'll get it.
Yamaha Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 I think KMT is right about you. You will have to push yourself. It doesn't seem to be in your nature to be confident and that is a turn off to women.
Author Jewklar Posted September 5, 2007 Author Posted September 5, 2007 Thanks WWJD u always seem to give the most detailed and helpful advice.. no offence Yamaha u give great advice 2
mental_traveller Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 lol alright sounds good im always just so worried with ****ing rejection augh its so frusteration i wish i didnt care The way to not care is just to practise. It's like anything people are scared of - some people are terrified of speaking in public for example. If you ever see a smooth public speaker, chances are he or she has done it a lot and was rather nervous the first time. But now they are smooth. It's the same with approaching women. Believe me after you've done something dozens of times, you don't worry about it so much. With things like this, it's too easy to get into the paralysis of analysis. The simplest way is just to stop thinking and go out and do it.
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