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Guys: Thoughtful vs Scary


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Just a quick question for the men out there... What types of things do you like a girl to do when you first start dating that shows she cares? or even if you've been dating for a little while but you're still getting to know her?

 

i'm the type of girl who is always thinking of my guy... but i'm not overly emotional or attached either... so i don't want to come off as overwhelming or crazy if i want to do nice things for him. i want him to know i'm a laid-back, cool girl that cares about him. i guess there's just a fine line between scary and thoughtful... what do you guys think?

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Ask him to come over for a home-cooked meal unprompted.

If you don't already, make an effort to contact him equally as much as he does you.

Compliment him... I've found women in my life have been very deficient in that department.

Initiate physical contact with him, however small. It can mean a lot to some guys.

 

These are things that I like, and unfortunately, I've never really gotten any of them in the last 7 years or so :(. Other guys may not like the same things, but I think these are pretty safe.

 

Good luck. Thanks for making an effort.

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