Ladies, why do females reply to these type of ads and when we talk on the phone......

[VirtualInsanity]

Why not just pay for the services you're looking for?

 

Seems easier but what doesn't make sense is there are lots (females) like him that want exact same thing. It's easy to find.

[DateAnalyzer]

Do you talk before having sex with a girl? Yes? Therefore, talking would be a foreplay encounter, right? Thank you.

 

 

 

 

"safe adult fun"....how do you know she didn't mean playing Pictionary? Ok, that was a joke.....

 

Basically you sound like some guy who's dialing a 1-900 number and expecting some action. Well that's just kind of sleazy, dontcha think? Then again, you ARE on Craigslist.......

 

Why not just pay for the services you're looking for?

 

 

I'm not interested in escorts, prostitutes, hookers, or strippers. Just a regular girl who is a fan of creative safe stress relief activities that doesn't involve nudity

[uniqueone]

Seems easier but what doesn't make sense is there are lots (females) like him that want exact same thing. It's easy to find.

 

Yes, but he's complaining that they aren't doing it correctly. Therefore, he should pay for it. Solves the problem.

[uniqueone]

I'm not interested in escorts, prostitutes, hookers, or strippers. Just a regular girl who is a fan of creative safe stress relief activities that doesn't involve nudity

 

 

You want a girl to do yoga with???

[VirtualInsanity]

Then put rules on the ad LOL!! But agreed paying solves the problem.

[DateAnalyzer]

Seems easier but what doesn't make sense is there are lots (females) like him that want exact same thing. It's easy to find.

 

 

but the question is are they regular girls??

[VirtualInsanity]

but the question is are they regular girls??

The ones you pay for? I have no idea who they are or if they have anything but you'd get what you want w/out frustration.

 

Have you tried your ad elsewhere?

[uniqueone]

but the question is are they regular girls??

Hmmm......"regular" girls.......

 

Those, I suppose would be ones that call guys and talk dirty to them while the guy gets off on it....as opposed to the girls who get PAID to do so. Right? It's a matter of commerce then that differentiates the "regular" girls from those "other" girls.

[Cobra_X30]

Years of rejection and maltreatment?! If you're "mistreated" and "rejected" for years and years - so much so that you become a bitter wreck of a person - guess what? It's YOU! Continual rejection and mistreatment is not the way of the world - it's all in perception and attitude. Perpetual victims are victims of their own minds. Bitterness is a choice, not an inevitability.

 

All correct! But we are speaking about "true misgynists" are we not? That is an attitude born from a feeling of superiority not a feeling of inferiority. A true misogynist is very successful with women and views them as objects.

[Cobra_X30]

but the question is are they regular girls??

 

So are you assuming that regular girls respond to adds entitled:

"Looking for Foreplay Encounter" and "Looking for a Indoor friend who I can have safe adult fun with" ??

 

I hate to burst your bubble, but your not exactly looking for regular girls here.

 

Why does it annoy you when a girl wants to get to know you first? Is it that frightening?

[DateAnalyzer]

So are you assuming that regular girls respond to adds entitled:

"Looking for Foreplay Encounter" and "Looking for a Indoor friend who I can have safe adult fun with" ??

 

I hate to burst your bubble, but your not exactly looking for regular girls here.

 

Why does it annoy you when a girl wants to get to know you first? Is it that frightening?

 

 

I didn't say I was bothered by some girl getting to know me, i'm saying after 2 hours of talking, it' time to talk about what I mentioned in my ad

[Ruby]

So why dont YOU bring up the subject at hand?

 

Do you have learning difficulities?

 

I can imagine you would be a hard person to talk to. And I stand by the fact that if any girls answers that ad, the way it is worded, is not the full ticket and most definately a bit weird!

 

You will get what you advertise for. Try going out a bit!

[jcster]

All correct! That is an attitude born from a feeling of superiority not a feeling of inferiority. A true misogynist is very successful with women and views them as objects.

 

In my book, a misogynist blames women for their problems. They feel weak and unhappy, and blame women for the problem. They then try to dominate/control them to regain a feeling of power. They often do this by learning how to play them and hurt them "first."

 

Hate never comes from a position of power - always weakness.

[Kamille]

Aaaahhh. I needed a good laugh! Thanks everyone!

 

So, DA: to sum up:

 

YOU bring it up next time a girl replies to your ad!

 

This is because:

 

Nope, "regular" girls normally don't reply to ads asking for safe adult fun. When they do reply, they probably feel quite out of place and are hoping that since YOU suggested it, you will be bold enough to bring it up.

 

Ooohh. And I remember you said at one point that one of those ads mentions safe adult fun and watching TV. So, yeah, chances are they will ask you what your favorite TV show is, out of desperation, once they realize that you're not bringing up the kinky part.

 

What's a 'regular' girl looking for adventure to do?

[amber1]

but the question is are they regular girls??

 

 

No girl that would respond to an ad like yours is a "regular" girl.

[DateAnalyzer]

No girl that would respond to an ad like yours is a "regular" girl.

 

 

That's what I thought but that's not the case

[IpAncA]

So why dont YOU bring up the subject at hand?

 

I'm wondering the same thing myself. Talking for 2 hours and no one brings it up? Haha this is just too werid.

 

Sorry but this is a first for me and I've never heard anyone complain about something like this before.

[sofakingmad]

haha i would be glad that women were responding at all to an ad like that. and if they called me i'd make damn sure i mentioned what i wanted even if they asked me what kind of TV shows i watched. i'd probably say why don't you come over and find out while we play with each other.

[IpAncA]

haha i would be glad that women were responding at all to an ad like that. and if they called me i'd make damn sure i mentioned what i wanted even if they asked me what kind of TV shows i watched. i'd probably say why don't you come over and find out while we play with each other.

 

See. That's not hard to state and it avoids the long phone call converstations.

[Yamaha]

I don't think you have any desire to do anything with these girls. You get enjoyment by placing the ad and seeing if there are women low enough to respond to them.

[DateAnalyzer]

Craiglist is not a site for someone looking for love

 

But if you are looking for stress relief activities, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THE SITE!!!!

[sofakingmad]

i haven't had much success with it so far. i've only had one woman respond. so if i put foreplay encounter in the title i'll get responses?

[DateAnalyzer]

i haven't had much success with it so far. i've only had one woman respond. so if i put foreplay encounter in the title i'll get responses?

 

Put-"CREATIVE TENSION RELIEF ENCOUNTER"

[sofakingmad]

haha ok but i feel kinda weird doing that? it just ain't me man.

[Capricciosa]

I'm starting to think you post these threads just to get a rise out of people, or some negative attention that is still attention--like guys who get off on being spanked. Otherwise, I'm worried that it's guys like you who are out there online, plotting and resenting and demeaning the women who actually show interest in you for whatever their reasons might be.