Ladies, why do females reply to these type of ads and when we talk on the phone......

[DateAnalyzer]

they never mention what I was asking for. Example one ad i posted on craiglist said-"Looking for Foreplay Encounter" and the girl who responded called me last night and the conversation was like it would be if I said I was looking for dating.

 

The other girl responded to a ad that said-"Looking for a Indoor friend who I can have safe adult fun with" and we we talked yesterday once again they make no mention of what I want to do. They are just ignoring what I requesting and turning it into a dating thing.

 

 

why do women do this???-lol

[lindya]

why do women do this???-lol

 

Desperation or prostitution.

[DateAnalyzer]

Desperation or prostitution.

 

 

you are not understanding my question, i said why do they not bring up that I want to kiss, massage, cuddle, and be playful when we talk for the first time? It's like i never even mentioned it in my ad. I always expect someone who replies to a ad like that to say-"So tell me more about the foreplay thing you talked about in your ad?

[birdie]

Desperation or prostitution.

 

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[sofakingmad]

you are not understanding my question, i said why do they not bring up that I want to kiss, massage, cuddle, and be playful when we talk for the first time? It's like i never even mentioned it in my ad. I always expect someone who replies to a ad like that to say-"So tell me more about the foreplay thing you talked about in your ad?

 

here's a novel idea for you. how about YOU bring it up to them on the phone since it was your ad they're responding to.

[VirtualInsanity]

How come you never mention it? It's possible their checking to see if your some creep. Is odd it's never mentioned.

[DateAnalyzer]

here's a novel idea for you. how about YOU bring it up to them on the phone since it was your ad they're responding to.

 

 

that's like me responding to a female who wants to have oral sex and then when i talk to her on the phone i ask things like-"what's your favorite kind of music."-lol

[Ruby]

Do YOU not mention it either?

 

When they call you should say "Oh great to talk to you, so you like foreplay too yes?, so what would you do to me then?"

 

Start as you mean to go on

 

Ps) What a strange ad!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would hate to meet the girls who reply to it! I bet they are riddled with disease

[jcster]

Probably because they were curious about your ad, but might be too shy to come right out and say..."so, you want blank, blank and blank." It might also be that they are trying to feel you out and see if you are a psycho. I can't imagine any woman going to a strange man's apartment for "foreplay" and not spending a little time chatting him up to make sure he isn't hallucinating.

[DateAnalyzer]

Do YOU not mention it either?

 

When they call you should say "Oh great to talk to you, so you like foreplay too yes?, so what would you do to me then?"

 

Start as you mean to go on

 

Ps) What a strange ad!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would hate to meet the girls who reply to it! I bet they are riddled with disease

 

 

I have to disagree with you, i think girls who reply to ads asking for sex are riddled with diseases

[DateAnalyzer]

Probably because they were curious about your ad, but might be too shy to come right out and say..."so, you want blank, blank and blank." It might also be that they are trying to feel you out and see if you are a psycho. I can't imagine any woman going to a strange man's apartment for "foreplay" and not spending a little time chatting him up to make sure he isn't hallucinating.

 

 

well they feeling out thing is fine for about 20 min, but it's like they never bring it up and I shouldn;t have to bring it up since they replied to me. I'm not even on a date and still females are annoying the hell out of me

[Ruby]

Any girl who replies to an ad for sex OR foreplay is a dirty girl!

 

Trust!

[jcster]

I'm not even on a date and still females are annoying the hell out of me

 

That's because you don't like women, and you resent them for having the body parts that you desire. I really think you are a true misogynist.

[Trimmer]

well they feeling out thing is fine for about 20 min, but it's like they never bring it up and I shouldn;t have to bring it up since they replied to me. I'm not even on a date and still females are annoying the hell out of me

You "shouldn't have to...." Where are you getting these rules and guidelines from?

 

I think your problem is that you are treating this as some kind of "normal" situation, as if you can apply ordinary interpersonal guidelines to it, when it's actually fairly wierd. Your callers probably feel that way too, and by the time they get you on the phone (and who knows what you are like in the "feeling out" phase...) they aren't sure how to handle it either. After a while of talking, they're probably asking themselves the same question: "why isn't he bringing it up? He placed this ad, I shouldn't have to..." Fizzle.

 

So bottom line, strange women who would respond to an ad looking for "safe adult fun" and "foreplay encounters" don't respond exactly as you expect over the phone, you are unwilling to take up even a little of that slack, and your conclusion is that they are annoying the hell out of you?

 

Maybe you should try your ad on stepford.craigslist.org.

[Cobra_X30]

That's because you don't like women, and you resent them for having the body parts that you desire. I really think you are a true misogynist.

 

Perhaps he is just bitter from years of rejection and maltreatment??? That does have an effect on a guy after a while... just as it does women.

[sofakingmad]

You "shouldn't have to...." Where are you getting these rules and guidelines from?

 

I think your problem is that you are treating this as some kind of "normal" situation, as if you can apply ordinary interpersonal guidelines to it, when it's actually fairly wierd. Your callers probably feel that way too, and by the time they get you on the phone (and who knows what you are like in the "feeling out" phase...) they aren't sure how to handle it either. After a while of talking, they're probably asking themselves the same question: "why isn't he bringing it up? He placed this ad, I shouldn't have to..." Fizzle.

 

So bottom line, strange women who would respond to an ad looking for "safe adult fun" and "foreplay encounters" don't respond exactly as you expect over the phone, you are unwilling to take up even a little of that slack, and your conclusion is that they are annoying the hell out of you?

 

Maybe you should try your ad on stepford.craigslist.org.

 

exactly.

[DateAnalyzer]

Any girl who replies to an ad for sex OR foreplay is a dirty girl!

 

Trust!

 

 

have to disagree with you again, there has never been a dirty girl in my apt

 

they have never been allowed

[sofakingmad]

that's like me responding to a female who wants to have oral sex and then when i talk to her on the phone i ask things like-"what's your favorite kind of music."-lol

 

so no casual conversations are allowed. if they call you in response to your ad the first thing out of their mouths should be when can they come over and service you. ok. lol

[DateAnalyzer]

so no casual conversations are allowed. if they call you in response to your ad the first thing out of their mouths should be when can they come over and service you. ok. lol

 

 

well i guess it's ok if it's between 6pm and 10pm, but if i'm talking at 1am in the morning I defintely don;t want any female asking me what kind of tv shows i like

[sofakingmad]

I'm not even on a date and still females are annoying the hell out of me

 

well since women are annoying you have you given any thought to swinging to the other side?

[sofakingmad]

well i guess it's ok if it's between 6pm and 10pm, but if i'm talking at 1am in the morning I defintely don;t want any female asking me what kind of tv shows i like

 

wow.

[VirtualInsanity]

Your ad is clear to me. I surpose case of bad luck. Can you put stipulations on it so you don't get these types of calls?

[DateAnalyzer]

well since women are annoying you have you given any thought to swinging to the other side?

 

 

The otherside for me is

 

Sports/Internet

[jcster]

Perhaps he is just bitter from years of rejection and maltreatment??? That does have an effect on a guy after a while... just as it does women.

 

Years of rejection and maltreatment?! If you're "mistreated" and "rejected" for years and years - so much so that you become a bitter wreck of a person - guess what? It's YOU! Continual rejection and mistreatment is not the way of the world - it's all in perception and attitude. Perpetual victims are victims of their own minds. Bitterness is a choice, not an inevitability.

[uniqueone]

they never mention what I was asking for. Example one ad i posted on craiglist said-"Looking for Foreplay Encounter" and the girl who responded called me last night and the conversation was like it would be if I said I was looking for dating.

 

Do you talk before having sex with a girl? Yes? Therefore, talking would be a foreplay encounter, right? Thank you.

 

 

The other girl responded to a ad that said-"Looking for a Indoor friend who I can have safe adult fun with" and we we talked yesterday once again they make no mention of what I want to do. They are just ignoring what I requesting and turning it into a dating thing.

 

"safe adult fun"....how do you know she didn't mean playing Pictionary? Ok, that was a joke.....

 

Basically you sound like some guy who's dialing a 1-900 number and expecting some action. Well that's just kind of sleazy, dontcha think? Then again, you ARE on Craigslist.......

 

Why not just pay for the services you're looking for?