Mixed Signals

[niceandslow]

Ok, so I have talked about this guy who I've been dating before. I have really strong feelings for him but I am starting to wonder about our relationship. We have been seeing each other for 3 month, and I love the time we spend together. However, the time we do spend together is so limited. He works, goes to school, and has a daughter. I am always last on this list, and it starting to make me wonder if he is too busy for this relationship. For example, he gets out of work at like 10 or later every night. This is usually the only time he has time to spend with me. I say yes because I know this might be the only time I can see him. Now I am wondering if he is just expecting me to say yes to hanging out so late every night.

 

The other night I mentioned this to him, and he said he didn't know I felt that way. I told him I want to spend a whole day with him, not a day that is limited by the time we work. He said he would spend more time with me if it what I wanted. So, he made plans with me yesterday to get together at 6 after he dropped off his daughter. He said he missed me and he can't wait to see me. All of this stuff, but he still has not called me yet today even though he texted me a few times.

 

When he calls, I plan on telling him it is too late to do anything. Like, what is going through his head? Why does he think he can keep doing this to me? He says one, but does another. I just don't know what to do about this whole situation.

 

 

Ahhh...so I thought dating a guy who was older would be different. I thought they would be more mature and know what they want. BLAH!

[Krytellan]

How long are you willing to be disrespected?

 

And we wonder why some nice guys become bitter with women in general when there are so many examples of women spend so much energy on people that have no time for them.

[Poboy]

the guy sounds like a real busy one and there are people like that. you are always going to date/ spend time & do things on his terms. if you cant handle it , move on.