bestadvisor Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 . Happy Birthday to me, and to all of you ladies (and OMs!) out there, my love and support to you! Thanks, E You have no one to blame but yourself for getting involved with a married man? EVEN IF he leave his wife for you, which obviously he won't, what make you think that he won't do that to you say 3 or 5 years from now?
RealityCheck Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 You have no one to blame but yourself for getting involved with a married man? EVEN IF he leave his wife for you, which obviously he won't, what make you think that he won't do that to you say 3 or 5 years from now? Blame? Blame? What makes you think that most of us walk out of an Affair blaming ourselves. I sure as hell didn't! And; I know plenty more who haven't either! Life goes on beautifully when resentments and bitterness do not consume our thoughts. la...la...la..la..:bunny:
whichwayisup Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 Then his wife came home when we were on the phone and I could hear her. She sounded so chipper, happy and friendly. Is that the tone of a woman who is going through a divorce? So then he gets all whispery. For someone who is leaving their marriage, why would he care if his wife heard him on the phone? And yes, she supposedly knows something about my existence. Remember this next time he tries to contact you. He has NO intention of leaving his marriage. She more than likely has no clue you exist, let alone knows that's been having an affair with you. Focus on you, and close this MM off from your heart. Stick to NC and IGNORE the guy. He is playing you for his ego feed. Don't let him do that to you!
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