AngeloWolfe Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 Another thing that's been on my mind... and I never really wanted to face this. But this was one of the main reasons me and my ex didn't work out. Can these two elements define a relationship? In example, I'm not a heavy drinker. I don't mine sitting around the house and drinking with some buds every once in a while, but this crap where everyone goes out, gets hammered til they're vomitting, and all that - it's just not for me. I don't like it. However, my ex -never adimttingly- did. So.. I broke it off, after the whole 'I"ll just cheat on you with someone who does' thing happened. What do you guys think? Is it always determined by drinking and smoking? Surely love is more than just this... right?
uniqueone Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 Another thing that's been on my mind... and I never really wanted to face this. But this was one of the main reasons me and my ex didn't work out. Can these two elements define a relationship? In example, I'm not a heavy drinker. I don't mine sitting around the house and drinking with some buds every once in a while, but this crap where everyone goes out, gets hammered til they're vomitting, and all that - it's just not for me. I don't like it. However, my ex -never adimttingly- did. So.. I broke it off, after the whole 'I"ll just cheat on you with someone who does' thing happened. What do you guys think? Is it always determined by drinking and smoking? Surely love is more than just this... right? Lifestyle plays a factor....ESPECIALLY if someone feels self-conscious about their drinking. If he felt that he drank too much (even if he didn't say so), then your lack of drinking would bother him. When someone has a habit that they wish they didn't have, it often bothers them to be around those who don't have that habit. It is a reminder to them of their lack of self-control and that gets them depressed...so they want to avoid that feeling......so they avoid that person.
Enema Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 Are you saying that your partner said to you: "I'll cheat on you with someone who does" (like binge-drinking). ??
Author AngeloWolfe Posted September 4, 2007 Author Posted September 4, 2007 lol no.. it was more like, "Well, even though we've been together for 11 months and I told you I hated the stuff, I've decided I miss it and instead of being honest to you I'm just going to put myself in a position where you catch me cheating on you with my ex who will drink and smoke with me" kind of thing. I just feel that... she should have a better reason than breaking off the wonderful thing we had just because I didn't kill my brain cells. @.@
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