funkybassplayer Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 Well hi all, hope your all well, and your healing well! First my ex's new guy emails me to say i called him and how i got his number-did i hell! 2 weeks back, i have not called him nor know his number, or wish to contact my ex's new man!! and today, my ex's 16 year old daughter emails me and says shes (the daughter) missing me. I dunno. Should i contact her back? im moving on well, dating again, and looking at these two events at face value, and trying not to let my mind wander back. I was very close to all my exs 3 kids as those of you on here know, and they to me. Its been 3 months since n/c and 4 since the split. Her new guy banned contact between them and me.
tinke Posted September 4, 2007 Posted September 4, 2007 no funky, no..you've come so far. if you were to have contact with the daughter, it would be best to wait much further in the future when you KNOW you are on solid footing. seems VERY risky. we've shared approx. the same break-up period, and i have followed your threads. i have read your expressions through the darkest times, and have followed you to where you are now...much growth! even though you may not realize, your tone in your threads have changed...YOU ARE CHANGING...(you butterfly, you!) plus, why get involved in the whole ugly mess she (ex) got herself into. steer clear, my friend! (just my objective advice). p.s. glad to hear you're out living again!
tinke Posted September 4, 2007 Posted September 4, 2007 funky, isn't this the girl who racked up charges on your credit card without your knowledge? seems i remember something which involved her spending without your awareness.
Author funkybassplayer Posted September 4, 2007 Author Posted September 4, 2007 funky, isn't this the girl who racked up charges on your credit card without your knowledge? seems i remember something which involved her spending without your awareness. Hey Tink you have a great memory!! yes it was, she spent £5 on it. She did tell me, but never sent it! Yes i know iv changed alot in the last month, i think this whole break-up has made me grow, and i find that the life coach im seeing is great! I intend to reply back, soon, just to say hi, and miss her too, as i do miss the kids, but in my head, i feel that this girl only got real love from me, in all her 16 years, and i guess maybe she missis me, as she has said she misses me alot. i really will not talk about the ex at all, as i have no interest too, and im happy now, very happy, but i would find it very hard no just ignor the daughter, as she came to me from her own accord, and surly that would warent a reponce? i will make it clear in the wording, that contact is between me and her and not the mum, i wont say that, but i will not indicate anything to do with the mum, and thats genuine. If at some point the mum wants to say hi, thats a different issue, but till then, ill keep building my life better than it was b4. How are you doing tink??
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