lovesick1 Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 Ok, guys, this girls parents are totally psycho. I don't want to sit around my entire senior year of high school waiting for them to get a life. Here's the deal, again: THEY WON'T EVER LET HER GO OUT WITH ME! They used to be cool with it but now they never let her out the house! We've been dating 6 months and theres always some reason why she can't go out. But when we're on the phone she says how much she misses me. We were going to go out last Friday but then she said she couldn't because she had to spend time with her parents?? Then we were going to go out Saturday to a football game, but her parents said no again for one reason, A)they don't want her to get hurt? Then they changed it to, B) your sister is leaving to go back up to college (she was down visiting.) Then, we were going to try for Sunday, and the only excuse I got for that was that her mom said no and her sister actually left on Sunday, not Saturday. SO the whole flippin weekend basically shot. OK, now today, labor day, 6 month anniversary. We planned on me picking her up at 12, and I call her at 11:45 to see if she's ready. She says, "not even close, her friend came over for an hour to hang out and she just left." Now her parents are making her go shopping with them before I meet them at the store to pick her up. God knows when thatll be. Last time she said that it ended up being roughly 6 hours longer than when I was supposed to get her. Now I'm worried the same thing is going to happen again, and if it does, I will have just about had it. I had a dream last night I broke up with my girlfriend for this exact reason, she never had time for me. Now I see that dream forming into reality right before my eyes. I'm tired of constantly waiting on her! It's not all her though, it's probably 99 percent her parents. They just won't let her go out! As I mentioned in my other thread, if you've read it (Girls parents are *******s) that her dad is completly psycho so going over there is totally out of the question. Recently when we're not together everything has been going to hell and we fight way too much over why things are differnt and I love being with her, it's absoluty amazing, but when I'm not with her it's not even worth it. I never thought I'd say this but I think I've made up my mind to break it off. My parents don't even think its a healthy relationship any more. If I do I would feel really bad though becasue she already has my birthday planned out (late october) and a bunch of stuff we are going to do before the year is out. She seems really excited about all this stuff and I am do but I don't ever see them being done. Should I break it off today, the anniversary? Or should I wait until later in the week, which would probably be next weekend(if her parents let her) because I don't see her during the school week, and I would break it off in person. My buddy usually helps me through some of these things but he couldn't offer any on this. So unless you guys can convince me otherwise, I'm going to break it off. THANKS
Author lovesick1 Posted September 3, 2007 Author Posted September 3, 2007 An Update guys: I picked up my girl and we had lunch and hung out but only got to for a few hours at which point her mom called and said she had to come home. This is ridiculous, I only got to spend half as much time with her as we had planned on and she barely even got out on that. Her dad didn't want her to go out in the first place but her mom said she could since it was our 6 month anniversary. I am so sick to my stomach over this and I feel like I'm going to lose the thing that has been most important to me in my whole life. But its not losing it if I'm ending it I guess. I just don't even see this relationship as healthy any more. She wants to wait a while to see if they change but I know they wont. Before this her curfews were steadily getting earlier and her parents were letting her out less. I have no idea why! If anything it should be the other way around! When we first starteed dating her curfew was like midnight! Now it's only 10, at the latest! I'm just so depressed right now and I just want things to go back to the way they were. Please give me some help guys, I'm so confused... I told her that unless her parents do what she says and "change their habits," she will be seeing some serious changes with us soon(breaking up, she caught my drift.) PLEASE HELP
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