freddy-a Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 Brief History: Dating two and a half years. She cheated on me while on vacation early in our relationship and we worked through it. About five months ago, she was "hanging out" with a guy that she said she had flirted with, and kissed, and wanted to date. Bumps into this guy (out with other friends) and a hour later he starts this message conversation over the next day. (On my cpu of all places) I read this and it really hurts, I feel its the path to another problem in our relationship, she says it not. I asked why there is no mention of her boyfriend (me), and got now answer. Help me, should I be concerned with this, or am i just making to big a deal out of it? Any suggestions of what to do? HIM: ay sup. it was cool c'n u there. u look great. how's school. hit me up HER: hi! thanks for the wrists bands, that was nice of you guys ......even though you totally cut in front of everyone!! lol.things are good, its busy. how about you? HIM: i d k. i been waitin all this time to b here and it aint really that tight. i mean they didnt let us do much so that weak. but its cool i guess. how long u here for before u leave.? i mean if u want we sud do somethin before ya leave HER: youll like more later. im not here long , hanging with S and then im going to see my parents - then i have to drive back. not really looking forward to driving but i have a lot to do for work. do u guys have anything happening near me? HIM: i dont kno. if i find out ill let u kno tho
nittygritty Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 She broke your trust early on in the relationship and cheated on you. I would think that your always going to be questioning her behavior in regards to cheating and rightly so. She kissed and wanted to date the guy that she is in contact with. You have a right to be upset. It doesn't sound like she is mature enough or ready for a committed monogamous relationship.
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