Dreamflyer Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 a few months ago, we made out while we were on a camping exercise (search and rescue, we were the lost party) one night. dam what a night that was. it waz 7 hours of fun. yay. cool. the next night...much the same (just slightly shorter). The next day, i said hmmm yea. and waht was that w/e events about? u like me...i think...why wont you try u and i az a coupl? she said "coz i can see that you'll like me more than I like you, and that could cause problems". To a point...this is true, but shes well i guess the ONE person in this world that knows me for who i am, and likes me for what i am. We are essentially best mates, and have been that way for a few years. She did it again tonight in the van and while waiting for others to come, (as the last night started anyway). Meaning, she came back, gave me a big hug, and we just stood and huggd for close to an hour. some of the others in the group were making sly smartass comments about xx likn xx's cock blah blah, kidz, mariage blah blah, and she didn't even flinch or slightly pull away. In the van, we were holding hands, and leaning/lying on one another, and just enjoying the company. I love her. She doesn' know that for many reasons but still... I'm pretty sure she feels something, as do i, just won't do anything. why! What are your comments and thoughts?
kymberann Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 She's not ready to commit. She is enjoying the time spent with you for what it is right now as this is a FWBs to her. i can see that you'll like me more than I like you, and that could cause problems". She is being upfront with where she stands and where the R is going right now. So the main issue is whether you are willing to go on as FWBs or wait out for more? Best
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