sustainedbyactions Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 I really need some good advice on what to do! I am recently divorced after a long separation. I met a man at work. He is in a management position and has been with the company for a few years, I just started about 6 mos ago. He seems very shy and sweet and nice and we have flirted back and forth since I started. He started seeking me out to just say hi or to “check on me”. He asked me a few times how my divorce was going and if I would ever go back… Finally after months of emails and looks that went no where he asked for my number and we txt back and forth. After a few too many drinks I txt him to call me and we talked for thirty minutes and I told him how much I liked him and how I couldn’t figure out if he was playing a game or what. He tells me that he feels strongly and likes me a lot and told me how pretty, smart etc.. he thought I was. He did ask me out that night before the drunken phone call but he waited till like 8pm to txt me and ask so I told him I already had plans because I though that was a little disrespectful…. Anyways we finally end up meeting for drinks at a bar and it felt like magic. I have never felt so much for a person before not even my ex husband. Like I couldn’t see anything else in the room… It was deep for me. He seemed the same way. He told me that he had a “wall” and told me his concerns about stuff getting around work and how he was just waiting for the right time to ask me out. We ended up kissing several times and getting really close and I think I blew it when I came right out and told him I wanted to go home with him. This was after telling him earlier how I had never been with another man besides my husband. He told me to save it and we had something worth waiting for. He told me So I emailed him the next morning and told him I understand if he didnt want to start something with someone at work but to please not act weird around me now... He replied with no we have some unfinished buisness.... and mentioned that i "kissed very nicely"..... Ok, sorry for the rambling…. I sent him a 2 text messages Friday and never heard back. Then last night I sent him a message and asked him point blank if he wanted me to leave him alone. Still haven’t got a response from him. So I guess that is my answer… I just want someone elses honest opinion….. BTW I am pretty positive that he is completely single because people that know him well at work have said that he is and we met in a very public place that people from work frequent alot....
Lyssa Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 I'm sorry but I pretty much think you scared him away. Why text him too many times? If you didn't hear back from him, I can understand that you were probably worried something happened to him but I think it was good enough that he said he would want something but to wait for the right time...
amber1 Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 It is the holiday weekend. He might have become busy. I wouldn't contact him anymore. Let him contact you.
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