Hold_On Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 You think of him/her with someone else? Or does that not cross your mind? If you do ever picture him/her with someone else, what goes through your head?
Reactor Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 Not really, I mean only when I think of her with one of my friends. But to be honest thats just me being silly and jealous, as my mother says "Jealousy eats you up inside". So I try to stop thinking that way. Truthfully though, I feel if any guy can work out the trainwreck which was my ex, hes a better man than me and deserves her! Although I think I would be a little upset if I saw her out with a new boyfriend, (at the moment anyway!). And what goes through my head? Well with the friend bit, I think a mix of hurt, anger and betrayal, but honestly you can't stand in the way of whats 'meant to be' (if it is). And if I saw her out in public? Probably hurt more than anything else, but strangely I think I would also be happy for her because what litte is left that cares for her would be happy to see her happy. Regards, Reactor
sedgwick Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 I've been broken up with my ex for 7 weeks now, and yes, it hurts like hell when I think of him with someone else. However, I just keep thinking about my last big breakup, in 2004, and how I pined for him and wanted him back for almost a year, and then somehow I just came to my senses. Now when I think of him with someone else, I just feel sorry for her! I even looked at pictures of him recently to see if I still felt anything, and...nope. Nothing! Except for, "What was I thinking?" I have no idea how I ever even found him attractive.
tinke Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 no, i never think of him being with the other. sometime ago, after one of his escapades, i decided i will not compete...it is senseless, and i have a higher sense of value. i am saddened for how poorly he treated me in the break-up, but NEVER has the thought of her entered my mind...even when she purposely let me know she was in his life! just showed her insecurities...but, it is not about her. gunny had posted that cheaters downgrade..i am a believer of that!
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