Ghawam15 Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 i need help understanding this girl. k here it is so liek ive been friends with her for 3 years and we have been good friends. First she calls me her friend even though she nos nothing about me. second she always seems to hit me for some random reason. and she seems always angry with me. 3rdi kinda get a feeling tht she treats other people better than me even though im one of her only friends that was a guy. I cant understand this game she playing. idont even think she wants to be my friend. cause when the first time we met we used to fight alot, but then i began to be nice to her. But now i feel like theres something wedging between our friendship. i mean when i ask her if theres something wrong but she says nothings wrong, i dont think that is truethough any help or advice is appreciated
Jinnah Posted September 3, 2007 Posted September 3, 2007 She probably likes you... anyone else agree?
Author Ghawam15 Posted September 3, 2007 Author Posted September 3, 2007 Wht do nu mean by tht, and if she does like me she already has a bf(he's an enemy of mine though)
ftheunion Posted September 5, 2007 Posted September 5, 2007 It's that hard-to-get BS, or she is bipolar. If she doesn't need you around, then you don't need to be around her. Not when she treats you bad. Just don't bother her at all and don't go around her.
jason2425 Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 to me it also sounds liek she likes you. doesnt matter if she has a BF. She might be treating you badly because she is fighting her feelings for you. Does she get mad at the choices you make? does she try to be somewhat in control of your life or of you? if so she likes you. in either event if she doesnt, i would just tend to pull away and not be available. you will see what it is by the response she gives. if she doesnt care or doesnt respond to it, then go on with your life. if she cusses you out and yells at you or crys, then i would say she likes you. another approach is to be honest and up front and say, hey this here is hurting our friendship. if you see her try to correct it, then that is a good friend you want to keep around. if she continues or acts defensive and does nothing, then move on.
woodsfield Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 k, first of all, i dont think i can generate a good opinion because i couldn't understand half of what you said. and you did not tell us she a boy friend til later so i'm not sure you have given all the facts. i dunno....make a move.
Author Ghawam15 Posted September 9, 2007 Author Posted September 9, 2007 so yah i confrointed her about and i told her how she treated me more like less of a friend and tried to hurt me. So i was nervous at first but i summoned my strength and yelled at her and i was able to tell her everything she did to me. she wanted to start over our friendship, but during that time i was yelling at her i made her cry, after tht i felt like **** and i did not know wht to do . i wanted to tell her how i felt but i didnt want to hurt her. how do u think i should handle itb
jason2425 Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 if she is willing to begin from the start then i think that is great and you should be open to that. this is a friend who wants to fix the problem and remain friends. what do you mean about how you feel? are you in love with her? are you ok as being just friends? if you do like her for more you might as well get everything out in the open. its also good for you to appologize for yelling at her and if you have lacked in the friendship in anyway to her. take the clean slate and start over. sounds like she wants to work it out and you shoudl be receptive to it.
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