Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

[smitty12]

my ex just left me almost 2 months ago for the girl he was cheating on me with, they met in a bar they slept together the first nite they met and now he is living with her and her 2 daughters , i have been begging him to give us another chance we have know each other for 10 years been engaged for 6 he says he loves me and cares for me but does not want to be in arelationship with me and also wants to be friends and says he is disappointed when i tell him we cant , keeps saying how laid back she is they dont fight blah blah isay its new give it time and on his webpage he says hes single and she knows this doesnt seem to care i know i need to move on i say hes in lalala land she does not know him yet and his crappy ways we have never broke up before -they dont have anything in common i mean nothing he has no kids hes abig kid himself he also has been trying to force this new relationship on his family they want nothing to do with it will i be able to stay close to his family whom i love or will i have to cut them of to?do relationships like theirs ever last if its built on lies and guilt? and who brings a man they meet in abar home to live with her 2 daughters? also i have been living with depression and anxiety for a while and didnt know how bad it was untill he left now im better and he is gone just seems like waste - he told me i changed about 3 years ago thats when my grandma died so he left me for something i didnt know about and could not help i know i am better than both of them and what comes around goes around - but i still miss him

[Lyssa]

*hugs*

 

I'm sorry you're going through this rough time but you're not alone! If you keep reading all the posts, you know there is quite a number of posters who are in the same shoes with you.

 

You have to be strong and you will get through this. It will be hard.. You said it yourself, you're better than both of them and you deserve to be happy so think about what you want to do now that you're a free woman!

 

Keep posting!

[smitty12]

thank you i have been coming here for awhile and decided to post my story it really does help knowing sooooo many people are going through same thing i just need to get it outta my head that he will come back one day and today is 2 day nc we have been talking see each other and i just cant do it anymore im trying for at least 2 months let him miss me for while

[Lyssa]

Let him miss you but people who are so caught up with their own things, usually don't care about other people other than themselves.

 

You're better off without him, dear!