cheesydippindoodle Posted September 2, 2007 Posted September 2, 2007 Like an idiot, i've gone n fell in love wiv a guy who turned out to be married i put a post up the other night & got a mostly negative response yer i'm the bad one a know but you don't choose who you fall in love with and all too often it clouds your judgement when there telling you they love you not there wife etc.................Are there actually people out there who have a successful relationship after an affair - do they ever come true to thier word & leave the "unhappy marriage" they claim to be in????
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 2, 2007 Posted September 2, 2007 Some leave, but those are the ones who intended to in general before an OW/OM even came into the picture. If the marriage was otherwise fine, and they were content with the marriage and were just bored and looking for some side action - then they don't leave, unless they are forced to by their spouse. The only way to tell if they will leave, is if they actually do and of their own accord. It takes time to dissolve a marriage, but if a person is serious about it they will take a few steps to see it happen, instead of just talking about it because its what you want to hear.
Author cheesydippindoodle Posted September 2, 2007 Author Posted September 2, 2007 takes time.....yer i can say that we are 2 years on now but supposedly just 2 weeks away from him leaving. I've heard all the excuses under the sun they are wearing so thin now but i love him to bits & clinging on by my fingertips just hoping this time it will come.
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