thursday2 Posted September 2, 2007 Posted September 2, 2007 I watch alot of clips online, and go back to the site like 4 times! And after, I feel really low and sad--is this normal?? Like, i feel guilty, and dirty.
blowingthetrout Posted September 2, 2007 Posted September 2, 2007 I watch alot of clips online, and go back to the site like 4 times! And after, I feel really low and sad--is this normal?? Like, i feel guilty, and dirty. Why would it be wrong?! It's controversial, sexy, stylish and buzz worthy. no one should tell you it's wrong or make you feel bad about that would be like telling the NAACP to stop being black!
jason2425 Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 contrary to what a lot of people might want to tell you. Porn can be an addiction and that is not good. it will effect your sexual desires and habits with your partner/spous not to mention the relationship. guilt is our God given conscience telling us right from wrong. dont ever shut out the little voice in your heart, thats where our direction comes from teaching us right and wrong and directs our path to good things to prosper us. at this point i would say confess this to God and he will help you out. and will break off the bondage and control this has over you. he will not condemn you but will provide for a way of escape. I have seen many people delivered from the addiction of pornography and i know he can do it for you. despite what other may write after reading this.
JackJack Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Trust your gut feeling. If you feel dirty or guilty maybe there's a reason for that. If you feel you have a problem then try to seek help before it gets further out of hand.
seibert253 Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 Pornography can be addictive as any drug. I know from first hand knowledge. It can result in compulsive and addictive behavior. It can ruin relationships as it cost me my job, and almost cost me my marriage.
uniqueone Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 I watch alot of clips online, and go back to the site like 4 times! And after, I feel really low and sad--is this normal?? Like, i feel guilty, and dirty. Your impulses are desiring something but your mind stands in judgement over those impulses. Your impulses are winning in this case which makes you feel low....like you've been reduced to an animal who has no control over his impulses. Also, your mind holds judgement over what pornography symbolizes and it's a negative connotation and that too, makes you feel sad because you showed no control over refusing something which you deem to have negative qualities.
whichwayisup Posted September 6, 2007 Posted September 6, 2007 If it is interferring in your life, or taking away sex from your spouse or partner, then yes, maybe you need to cool it off. Fact that you feel bad and dirty about it isn't a good thing. Porn is fun, and it's okay to watch - But if you have different views on it (your upbringing) then I can understand why you'd feel that way... You aren't a bad person, nor a dirty person for looking at porn. Enjoy it and don't feel guilty. Like everything else in life, do it in moderation and don't over do it.
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