Stacid Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 My best guy friend recently revealed to me that he'd been going out on like a zillion dates with lots of girls, but he felt really weird telling me about them because he was embarrassed that he was going out with so many people. The only reason he told me is because I "caught" him when he accidentally showed me a text he got. Weird, right? I don't judge him. We've talked every day for like an hour for the past year and a half and he never mentioned any girls to me before. We also go out at least once a weekend. I just think it's odd that he failed to mention his humongous stable of women. Also, I kind of am mad that he didn't tell me--I feel like he was lying to me. I'm trying not to be too sensitive, but would you feel deceived?
Yosef Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 I dont know how much a difference it would make, but you're a guy or a girl? Well, either way, it must be hard to accept a fact such as heavy as that one to bear. If I were you, I would forgive him. He knows it feels wrong. He needs to work a bit on self-control and trust, IMO, but you are meant to grow from mistakes, not wither away. Forgive him but warn him. It may be hard to do so, but grudges only embed and worsen. They're like metal splinters. At the surface you can take them out but its gonna take a lot more effort to remove them once they've been there for a long time and sank into your body.
Author Stacid Posted September 1, 2007 Author Posted September 1, 2007 Thanks, Yosef. I am a girl, and I wonder if maybe he was somehow trying to either save me from this information or if he was trying to keep me as a back burner option. I don't know. I just can't understand why he'd keep that info from me--it's not really a big deal, but the fact that he hid it kind of makes it a big deal, right?
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