Lilysavage Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 Greetings to you all.. I am a newbie and came here because it looks like the place to get some answers from a broad spectrum of people. I'll do my profile in a mo'.. but am in a low spot and wondered if anyone could give me an explanation of something and how I deal with it.. Finding myself single (OH still lives here we are splitting) I dared to go on a date site.. I had a few chats with some people but really connected with someone, and pretty soon he was saying, could I meet him on msn.. so in 4 days we've clocked up some time. So tonight I go on as agreed, he's showing as being away, but always said just to send a nudge.. so I do.. nothing.. not one to chase I sent a friendly and light hearted e-mail..nothing. Now this is me overreacting yes. But it's all new to me this internet msn stuff and I can think of a million reason why he is away.. busy.. gone out.. and he's not obliged to tell me that.. but there's just a niggling feeling I've said or done something uncool. I've gone from being called, 'babe, and having xxxxxxxx to being ignored.. and have to admit it hurts. head says. grow up...and don't be silly. heart says.. a simple e-mail saying.. sorry to cancel our chat tonight got to go out... My instinct is to leave alone and let him decide if he wants to reply. men.. can you shed any light.. I'm not scary honest.. and we were getting on so well... I know there are rules out there and I am so new to being single haven't a clue.. ta..
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